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January 28, 2013 Video

An apology from women to men

Remember this wonderful Dear Woman letter?

Yeah.

Here’s the one I’d like to hear from certain (but not all) women. But I’m not holding my breath.

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Written by Dean Esmay


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AVfM Managing Editor Dean Esmay also blogs frequently about numerous topics on a regular basis at Dean's World and The Moderate Voice. He encourages people to look at issues through the lens of compassion for men who deserve it, and respect for women who deserve it. He is the author of the critically-acclaimed novel Methuselah's Daughter.

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  1. Stu

    You are right about the apology will never come, just more blaming and shaming. At this stage even if it did come, it would be, “we are sorry” Ok, get rid of all the misandric laws then. “Oh, I don’t know about going that far” Ok, then, eat shit.


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  2. Mark Trueblood

    Here is the extent of the apology we will ever get- “It wasn’t our fault. Why didn’t you guys tell us this was going to happen?”


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  3. Kimski

    “Why didn’t you stop us??”


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  4. Near Earth Object

    The person speaking: Stefan Molyneux

    Great YT channel.


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  5. Dean Esmay

    Truth of the matter?

    Men really did let this happen to a large extent.

    Without their enablers and the men who willingly went along with the whole thing and just sat there and apologized and self-flagellated and let this happen… it wouldn’t have.

    You know it’s as I’ve said many times: if men were what feminists said we were, hateful feminism would never ever have happened. There’s the grand irony.

    I remember a time when I was young when that “Dear Woman” video would have seemed profound, deep, and moving to me. Rather than the horrendously deluded evil I see it as now.

    I almost regret posting that video, because I want to see a healing. But to heal, there’s still more puss to squeeze out I guess.


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    • Keith in reply to Dean Esmay

      “Men really did let this happen to a large extent.”

      This statement is misandric full stop. To say this is to assign blame of outcome. It says nothing of the desires of men for change as feminism was unfolding or the deception that was applied.

      If I told you that your poverty would be eased by a larger work force that would accept your wife what would your response be? I don’t know how to make a sandwich!

      Feminism did not originate in the family it was brought in by people both men and women who were looking for change and a new way. It was delivered as an answer to that change and scripted as a deception to those same men and women.

      Feminism is a hate movement forwarded by governments against their own peoples. It’s force resides in it’s promise to hate women less.

      How the fuck does a guy like Joe Biden table VAWA and turn around and slaughter women and children in other countries.

      The only thing men are responsible for is trusting their own governments. Men are guilty of trust. There is no apology outstanding from anyone to anyone. I will not apologize for being deceived and lied to and I wouldn’t accept an apology on the same grounds.

      There is no going back, the future of trust will only come to those that earn it. Anyone looking to give or receive an apology so they can step back into the shit deserves the shit.

      Fuck retrograde freedom and retrograde liberty. It doesn’t disappear with an apology. Feminism is a government mandate to hate it’s people by priority and by proxy. It is the promises of a politician cooing for support and dropping them once elected.

      I was alive for the birth of feminism and the Kennedy assassinations and the demolition of the world trade center and global warming and the destruction of the monetary system. I also paid people against my will too manage that shit on my behalf.

      If blame is the answer and accountability is prescribed, then drag those fuckers onto the street and hold them accountable. But don’t tell me that feminism is something I let happen.


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  6. Teerex

    Stef rules!


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  7. Skeptic

    As Stu rightly points out at the top of the thread I don’t agree with Stefan Molyneux’s parting sentiment at the end of the video. For I do not think it is safe for men to come back as he implores us to . There is simply a raft of misandric laws and social conventions which make that a stupid and very dangerous move for men. That raft need sinking before men can safely re-engage in the manner Molyneux calls for.

    For those who haven’t seen it yet GirlWritesWhat does a fine job in explaining this very well IMO

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlvMAS_20K4


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  8. Justice

    Men refused to fight feminism, only because female sexuality became more liberal. This was not an accident. Women purposefully offered more sex to men in exchange for more power.

    The fastest way to end feminism, is to remove sexuality from women.


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  9. Nostradormouse

    I’m not going to hold my breath.


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  10. K.

    I have to say that was one of the most annoying videos I have ever watched/heard, With over a minute left I really wanted to close the page.
    Made me want to hit him to shut him up.
    I do agree with most of the points/subject, but it could have been done better.


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