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Nurdy Dancing compares shaming of Blacks to shaming of men

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See also Janet Bloomfield’s latest article on Thought Catalog (out today) making precisely the same analogy: Seven Ways Black Sociology Shows What Is Wrong With Feminism

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  • OldandNavy

    An oldie and still a Goldie.

    That was a great piece from Janet in the link there.

  • Bewildered

    Where’s she,btw ?

  • http://menaregood.com/ Tom Golden

    Damn. I had never heard that youtube before. Damn. That is a potent talk.

  • pinetree

    That came from the soul. Just how blacks got strengthened from understanding the truth. Thank you Nurdy. Deep respect.

  • crydiego

    As a white man who grew up as a child in the south during the 50’s I cannot agree with you. You did a great job in showing some parallels but honestly there is no equivalence between the treatment of men and the condition of blacks in the past.

    The word nigger struck fear in blacks and whites alike because nothing could be more fearful for a white southern than to be labeled a nigger lover. The blacks had no power and no backup so for a white to try and help them was futile and yet, to not help was shameful in their heart. It is hard to understand today how powerless blacks and good whites were in those days. The power of racism was all powerful and the blacks felt the full weight of it.

    So yes, there are some parallels, but as for me I cannot accept any equivalency; I would only feel shame in accepting that.

    • saris1

      I agree and I also think she left out an important part of the KKK’s history. Most of the lynchings were initiated by women who being caught, or suspected of, having intimate relations with black men would make up stories and the ‘white knights’ would ride out for ‘justice.’ That little part seems to be left out of almost every documentary, feminist film on patriarchy and early education on racism (history of).

  • DukeLax

    The ruling elite on campuses around the US, are the now perpetually offended,….”Gender-feminists”. They have gained their “Empowerment” by inflaming the public with “Inflama-prop” .

    • DukeLax

      Gender-feminists..are the only group on campus that All university presidents around the country have an “Open door policy” with…..at all times!!!

  • DukeLax

    “They can be legally abused…and everyone looks the other way”…this is a bit of gold here nerdy dancing.

  • Walter Hickman, Jr

    It is what it is, no one whats to hear the truth from a man especially a black man. It does not matter how educated or how right he is . Times have not changed white women has always been viewed by their male counter parts as special exceptional miss goodie two shoes and their sanctany can not be challeged. I applaud Steven A for voicing his opinion this is America right,unless you work for a white man which most of us do . Suspend me, because i am who i am, when i speak the truth my skin is still black and does not change to lilly white to appease you.

    • DukeLax

      Walter, i almost take offense at youre statement in a condescending tone …….”Unless you work for a white man, which most of us do”.
      I am a white man, and an MRM…..you gotta refine youre rhetoric man, so as to not offend others in the MRM….just sayin!!

      • Walter Hickman, Jr

        Case & point the President/ the truth has a way of lending itself in such a matter that no one is/wants listening. So, you feel as a white man that I need to tone down my rhetoric. As a black man the freedom to express myself is the only true freedom I have other than death itself. Everything that i do or say to express myself has to be worthy of life itself because at that point I may lose my life , my dreams all in an instant. What I say is not offensive, but truthful. I respect your opinion; please respect mine.

        • TheModeratorIsWatching

          I’m a white woman married to a black man. He’s a wonderful husband and he knows I’m all too human. Yet he’s a patient, loving man and never gets angry because it’s not in his nature. I’m a spifire and he likes that. But he sees me as a human, and that’s a good thing. I want to be seen as human and an equal. We have a relationship built on mutual love and respect.

          This “sanctity” crap is just that though. Most, (especially white) men do not sanctify women at all. Except when it’s in their interest to hold us up as something we never were and never will be. We’re human! We want the same experiences and to have the same chances for self fulfillment as any other person (men).

          Long before I married my wonderful husband, I immersed myself into the study of black folks in these United States of America. As Ta-nehisi Coates said in his piece in “The Atlantic” magazine “”Until we reckon with our compounding moral debts, America will never be whole”. He was talking about 250 of slavery, 90 years of Jim Crow and 65 years of “seperate but equal). And now we have the for-profit prison system which seeks to disenfranchise mostly the poor and people of color. It never ends.

          Your voice is essential. I’d ask, though, that you not immerse yourself into the MRM and MRA web of hatred. All I can do is ask…please see women – all women – as humans and not some mythical creatures that you fantasize are being sanctified. If that were true women (of all races) wouldn’t be living in the most poverty in this country and world wide. Don’t go hatin’ because you’ve been hated on, mostly by white men, btw. Most of the idiots whining here are privileged white men who are resentful of women and blacks and others becoming ascendent in our society.

          • driversuz

            So speaks a privileged white feminist woman. So blind to her privilege she doesn’t even grasp the appalling arrogance of her own condescension.

            Sweetie, the only “web of hatred” in gender politics is feminism. The fact that you blithely presume to understand either men or the motives of those who advocate for men’s human rights, is is all the proof anybody needs.

          • peaceful_journey

            Whatever you say privileged white person. I never said I was white or a feminist though.

        • peaceful_journey

          I’m a white woman married to a black man. He’s a wonderful husband and he knows I’m all too human. Yet he’s a patient, loving man and never gets angry because it’s not in his nature. I’m a spifire and he likes that. But he sees me as a human, and that’s a good thing. I want to be seen as human and an equal. We have a relationship built on mutual love and respect.

          This “sanctity” crap is just that though. Most, (especially white) men do not sanctify women at all. Except when it’s in their interest to hold us up as something we never were and never will be. We’re human! We want the same experiences and to have the same chances for self fulfillment as any other person (men).

          Long before I married my wonderful husband, I immersed myself into the study of black folks in these United States of America. As Ta-nehisi Coates said in his piece in “The Atlantic” magazine “”Until we reckon with our compounding moral debts, America will never be whole”. He was talking about 250 of slavery, 90 years of Jim Crow and 65 years of “seperate but equal). And now we have the for-profit prison system which seeks to disenfranchise mostly the poor and people of color. It never ends.

          Your voice is essential. I’d ask, though, that you not immerse yourself into the MRM and MRA web of hatred. All I can do is ask…please see women – all women – as humans and not some mythical creatures that you fantasize are being sanctified. If that were true women (of all races) wouldn’t be living in the most poverty in this country and world wide. Don’t go hatin’ because you’ve been hated on, mostly by white men, btw. Most of the idiots whining here are privileged white men who are resentful of women and blacks and others becoming ascendent in our society.

  • Megistus

    The mechanisms and techniques for, isolating, vilifying and dehumanizing a segment of the population remain unchanged regardless of whom they are applied to.

  • DukeLax

    Its becoming more and more clear each day…that white gender-feminists that now dominate American media, do not like…..Black football players, Able-ist white football players ( or any other able-ist sports player for that matter)…they do not like hetero-males…..they do not like sport teams, ……….they do not like frat boys….they do not like “Able-ist” people ( whatever Able-ist means)………………………..they do not like black football players….they do not like team sports that promote “Able-ism” ( Able-ism….whatever that means)….they do not like fraternities…they do not like hetero-males, they do not like black football players……Am i missing anything???

    • Walter Hickman, Jr

      Yes , freedom of speech, dictionary and the right to remain silent so ignorance won’t be exposed with a name!!!

  • DukeLax

    google “judith Grossman”

  • Jade Davis
    • TheModeratorIsWatching

      Quit pimping your phony books on disqus forums, sweet cheeks. Nobody cares about WATB MRAs. If they ever had a point, they lost people a long time ago. And you’re a dude.

      • driversuz

        Fuck off.

        • peaceful_journey

          Oh right away, intelligent resaponse, btw. ;-)

      • Frodo

        Who the fuck you think u are?

        • driversuz

          Some patronizing white bitch who thinks black men are a cool hobby.

          • peaceful_journey

            I’ve been married to a wonderful black man for 24 years. He’s definately not a hobby, but he’s very cool. You seem very patronizing, btw. Oh my, another “mod”? No discourse allowed here. I see. The site sucks anyway. You know this movement of yours is a hate group. Everyone knows it. Go ahead and block me. I don’t really care. You can’t handle anything outside of this insular bubble you’ve created. Bye.

          • driversuz

            You have been banned because of a serious and direct violation of Comment Policy (ban evasion). [Ref: 2322]

            Additional remarks:

            Boomerang seagull

        • peaceful_journey

          Such an intelligent question, worthy of this site, no doubt. ;-)

          • Frodo

            As a moderator i am not prone to asking intelligent questions from people who make such rude comments here.As for your mentioning “this site ” ,i invite you to take a peaceful journey and not return to this site.Or i will be more than happy to BAN YOUR ASS for being a feminist seagull with ignorant and rude intentions.

          • peaceful_journey

            Oooh, you sound mad. Tell me, what’s the intention of this site but to affirm hate against half the populace? You know deep in your heart that what you’re doing is hateful and wrong. If you can live with that, then let it eat your soul. That is, if you still possess one.

            Affiliating with this site is a corrosive act on your part. I prefer to walk with my fellow travelers, except those who would misrepresent themselves such as “Jade” does. She has no business acting as if she is a woman when she isn’t. I suspect “she” does this for nefarious purposes. Then again, this site is nefarious.

            Don’t worry about banning me. You all are a hate group. This is something we both know. It makes no difference who I am. Consider me a small gift of a prick to your conscience. Oh, and you’re welcome. ;-)) Ban away. I care not. I’m not defined by hate, as you seem to be. Good day.