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Nicole Fabian-Weber placed on offenders registry

According to her profile at Café Mom’s The Stir, Nicole Fabian-Weber, a “Mommy Blogger” with some spotty writing credentials, describes herself in the following way:

Not that long ago I moved to New York from Los Angeles, where I wrote and worked for shows like What I Like About You and The Big Bang Theory. I’ve written essays for McSweeney’s and Hackwriters, blogged for a bevy of websites, and even had a short-lived affair with copywriting.

I live in a dimly-lit Brooklyn brownstone with my husband and shih tzu.

Spend lots of time online. Don’t eat dairy. Big fan of puppies.

Sipping on: Gin and juice

Let’s add something else to her bio: Virulent bigot glorifying and promoting violence and sexual mutilation. Oh yeah, let’s also add her sorry ass to register-her.com.

In a post recently written on her blog space at The Stir, Fabian-Weber said the following:

A 29-year-old Vietnamese woman, only identified by her surname, Pan, was sick and tired of her husband’s philandering ways and his physical abuse. So she did what any scorned, ballsy woman would do: She waited until he was passed out from drugs and sleeping pills and cut off his penis — with a pair of scissors. Then she threw the severed member in a Taiwanese river like it ain’t no thang.

Afterward, she turned herself into police and allegedly told them that she felt no regret for what she did to her unemployed, drugged-out dirtbag of a husband. Bad. Ass.

There is so much glaringly wrong with this post. I need to point out first that drug addiction is a problem for which many people need help. I know, I spent a significant part of my adult life counseling people affected by drug addiction and alcoholism. I never considered sexual mutilation as a possible intervention, nor do I think most of my peers would have approved of that. Well, most of them.

But aside from that I would also have questioned the circumstances of any male client so unfortunate as to be connected with a woman capable of doing what Pan did.  Anyone capable of that, I assure you, was a terror in other ways long before she made this heinous attack. It is entirely possible that doing drugs and drinking was a coping mechanism the husband fell back on as a reaction to an abusive wife, and that his alleged violence, if it ever happened at all, was in self-defense.

In this I digress a bit, because it is Pan’s sick and disgusting American counterpart that is the real subject of this post. And I am not done with her yet.

After calling the victim of a sexual mutilation a “dirtbag of a husband,” and inferring that his lack of income was part of the rationale for severing his penis from his body and throwing it in a river, she further exposes her own psychopathology with the following:

Then again, I’ve never been pushed to such a point in my life. I imagine women who are actually ready to go through with … the deed have reached a place where they literally have nowhere else to go. They’ve been abused — physically, sexually, and emotionally — for far too long, and cutting off the thing that essentially gives men their power seems like the best option. And it probably is.

Notwithstanding this depraved rationalization, the only proven physical abuse in this case thus far was from this woman, who waited till her husband was unconscious and defenseless, then savagely attacked and disfigured him.

And the post reflects, some female bigots, disabused of the notion that there are any real consequences for violence perpetrated by women (that much is true), are moving past just committing such acts on their own behalf, but into open advocacy in public forums.

At the end of her blog post, she queries her readers with the following:

Do you think cutting off a man’s penis is a suitable punishment after enduring years of emotional and physical abuse?

It is clearly a question that this particular bigot wishes to be answered in the affirmative, as she illustrates with saying “I must admit, I’ve always admired a woman who has the cojones to cut off a man’s weenus. [sic]”

Fabian-Weber, in the spirit of Sharon Osborne and other low-rent versions of humanity everywhere, has just joined the ranks of violence advocates elevating their hatred into the public limelight.

Is this disgusting person going on to register-her.com? You bet your ass she is.  Are we going to have a protracted debate on whether to take her off that registry, should she decide to remove her post, or apologize? NO.

Nicole Fabian-Weber has volunteered to out herself as a hateful ideologue that supports the most deplorable forms of violence, against men, for whatever grievances women might allege to have. She will remain on the registry as long as that unfortunate man does not have a penis.

177 Comments

  1. scatmaster

    GOOGLE BOMBING NOW!!!!

    Done and Paul did you get my email with the youtube clip? Just want to make sure it did not get lost or wind up in the spam file. As I stated if you wish a response let me know.

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    • Sorry SM, I did get it but have not replied. Thanks for sending it. I will be doing a piece on it in the near future.

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      • No problem Paul as I said just wanted to make sure it did not wind up in your spam bucket. With an email address starting with scatmaster one never knows. Though unlike JMK my love of scat has to do with Mel Torme and Ella Fitzgerald.

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  2. Sean in the 313

    I get angry when I talk with people outside of the men’s rights movement regarding crimes against children. These ignorant fools always repeat the same nonsense:

    “Most mothers would die for their children.”

    Women have been statistically proven to harm their children more than men.

    “Women’s inuition gives mothers the ability to ‘know’ when something is wrong with their children.”

    You are full of shit. Something isn’t true just because you ‘feel’ something. You aren’t freaking psychics, so drop the smug attitude.

    “Mothers are more important than fathers and they love their children more than fathers.”

    If mothers are so vital to the well-being of their children and fathers are useless, then why are so many fatherless children, mostly boys, lost in their lives or on a one-way street to nowhere? Oh, and save the ‘love’ nonsense for when you and your girlfriends get together to watch re-runs of Oprah. If fathers don’t love, then why are there so many men who are willing to sacrifice their lives for their families? When was the last time you heard of a woman taking a bullet for someone?

    The lack of appreciation for men in this society makes me want to go insane. I hate living in a society that does everything in its power to make sure women live on cloud 9, while at the same time it tries to keep men in the sewer.

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    • Sean in the 313 said: “Women have been statistically proven to harm their children more than men.”

      Sean, why would feminists let little things like facts get in their way?

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      • In Australia 85% of abuse is physical or negect and 15% is sexual. Mothers commit 70% of physical abuse and neglect. While it is true men do commit a large part of sexual abuse (mostly male relatives and others not fathers). All we get to hear about is sexual abuse while other forms of abuse are not talked about for obvious reasons.

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  3. scatmaster

    If that is true, then why are mothers more likely than fathers to harm their children?

    Ask JMK,,,,, oh wait, never mind.

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  4. Eincrou

    There’s a program on the Investigation Discovery channel right now about the infamous Debra Lafave, or whatever that statutory rapist’s name is.

    Of course, it’s a sympathetic as possible, with dozens of photos of her looking beautiful and happy. The interview speaks softly; with almost a gentle whisper, so as to make sure his interviewee is as comfortable as possible.

    I don’t really think I need to say the rest of what I feel. “When’s the last time you saw a network give a chance for a male statutory rapist to tell his story?” Et cetera.

    You fellas know the score. Fill in the blanks.

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    • JTO said it well, as have others: women are the preferred sex.

      When Lorena Bobbit went on a talk show, she was asked as a joke: “Cut any good dicks, lately?”

      You couldn’t make this stuff up.

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      • Has anyone yet looked up who that prick/cunt was who wrote years ago in the New York Whines, just after the Bobbitt crime, something like “This can serve as a warning to men everywhere?” Coward probably ran it under a generic “AP”.

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  5. Paul Elam

    I take it, since you keep logging in with different ISP’s that you wish to post here. Fine, just issue a direct apology to Stu for calling him a mangina and I will let you pass. Otherwise you will be posting in vain. I will remove all of them. I can do that much faster than you can post.

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    • I have already apologized on the thread but I will apologize again. No problem, I apologize not only to Stu but to everyone else. I am not trying to hide or I would have simply changed nickname. I apologize and I was out of order. If you prefer to keep me banned, just let me know. I can carry on my activism elsewhere.

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    • Atlas Reloaded in reply to Paul Elam

      Personally, this one callin Stu a mangina had me laughin my ass off at him/her. I mean that’s just fuckin ridiculous.

      Don’t know any man here to whom that term applies.

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      • Yes I laughed too actually. When the time comes when I’m considered a mangina the world must have entered an anti female dystopia lol.

        Now, maybe we are being rash in the decision to forgive and wipe the slate clean…..she did after all call some of us manginas….maybe two years ban and an entry on register-her. After all, I don’t want to be called mangina again.

        Besides, we don’t even know if she’s pretty or not yet…..has she got good tits, great ass…..who knows.

        Just kidding :)

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  6. Atlas Reloaded

    “…, and cutting off the thing that essentially gives men their power seems like the best option. And it probably is.”

    This statement says it all.

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    • It really does. It shows how objectified MEN are by women when they give our swingin’ dicks this alleged “power”, let alone consider it our only power. They complain that a woman’s tits and ass are considered her only assets by men, while they (using Fabian-Weber’s logic) base a man’s place in life on his dick? And just who would be giving the dick so much power in that case? Personally I don’t see my dick coming into the equation when I go to work daily for a female boss along with my female co-workers to provide business service to a mostly female demographic. Doesn’t sound like a very patriarchal, cock-powered engine if ya ask me. No one at work has ever seen my dick or even been close to it (thankfully). But if I thought for a second that my dick could take me further in life I would whip it out at meetings and interviews and let all the ladies gaze at it in powerless wonderment. They’d have no choice but to give me a raise, a corner office and my own parking spot. And that’s just from looking at it soft.

      Very little makes a woman sound stupider than a comment like that. Lady, I can’t help it if you feel inferior to The Cock. If it holds that much power over your actions and opinions, maybe you should seek professional help for your fetishistic fixations. There’s mediation that can help with obsessive behavior. It might even decrease your sex drive as a side effect. It would be a win-win for a hypocritical whore like you.

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  7. Atlas Reloaded

    Uh-I no longer believe women that tell me they were abused by their boyfriends.

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  8. Unrewarded

    “Cutting off a dude’s private parts — with scissors (scissors!) no less — would probably be more punishment for me than the man itself. Shudder! Blech! Ick!”

    Wait a second, aren’t women supposed to be more empathic than men or something like that? Surely she understands that her minor disgust with human blood and gore is, in terms of negative feelings, comparatively nothing when contrasted with months of intense physical pain and a lifelong loss of an essential part of who you are… ah, nevermind, she’s just a feminist bigot and can’t understand anything outside of her immediate personal experience.

    Excellent registry, Paul. I cannot believe you skipped over this line in your post, though. THIS is the line that exposes her for who she truly is more than anything else.

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    • Thanks, and we provided a link to her post so.they can read it all. My hopes are that MRA’s CONVERGE on this post and riddle it with derision.

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  9. Paul Elam

    Google her name……and then smile.

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  10. TheBlackKnight

    Well done. The category actually isn’t severe enough for her though. Is there something between bigot and violent offender?

    I liken this to someone defending violence against someone of another race just for the color of their skin. She deserves worse than being labeled just a bigot.

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  11. AntZ

    “Is this disgusting person going on to register-her.com? You bet your ass she is. Are we going to have a protracted debate on whether to take her off that registry, should she decide to remove her post, or apologize? NO.”

    The second part of this is as important as the first. If we debate anything with a bigot, we legitimize her views.

    Put them on the registry, then forget they exist.

    Wonderful work, Paul.

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  12. victorsvoice

    Saved her blog post as a text file or pdf? Just checking to make sure we have it. I’ve saved it just in case.

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    • Already done, when and if she pulls the post, we will just replace the one linked from here and from RH with the .pdf

      Just FYI, it is now our S.O.P. to capture the evidence before making the announcement.

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  13. .ProleScum.

    Good shout Paul.

    Fuck Fabian-Weber, and the Rabbit she rode in on.

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  14. Look out Momosphere! Here comes the Manosphere!

    By the way, most of these SAHM mommy bloggers are afforded the privilege of staying at home to write this anti-male crap because their husbands and ex-husbands are footing the bill. Biting the hands that feed them over and over again with brio.

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    • Right on, Dr. T!

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    • Cetain people, like DrT here,s hould have a feature in their screen name so that we can give them more than one thumbs-up at a time when they say stuff this awesome.

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    • is it possible to let the husbands of these haters know what they are up to during the day while they are at work?

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      • Don’t know. I’m sure these guys are aware that they blog and what they blog. Don’t think I’m going out on a limb here, but I don’t these “ladies” are going to let anything as inconsequential as their husband’s disapproval get in their way.

        Let’s think how that might play out.

        H: Um, honey. I really don’t like it when you call me a helpless child who can’t zip up his own pants on your blog. Do you think maybe….

        W: Are you trying to control me?! Are you telling me what I can and what I can’t do?! Who do you think you are? I gave up my career for you and you begrudge my blog. I’m stuck in this house all day while YOUR child, who I gave up MY career for, is in daycare.

        H: I’m not trying to control you and I don’t mind if you blog. Of course not. Why are the breakfast dishes still in the sink. There’s no fridge in the food. What did you do all day?

        W: OHHHHHHHHHHHHH! Now you’re questioning what I do with my time! Do you know how hard it is being a mom? DO you have any fucking idea!

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        • You forgot taking all that time to get a man and pedicure. It is a wonder I haven’t dropped dead from over work. Oh, oh, pitiful me. You must really hate women.

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        • Yeah, I was thinking along those lines too.

          If he persists, she can always drug him and kill him in his sleep, claiming she was a victim of abuse for years, or call the cops and have him removed on a DV-charge.

          -Oh, what a tangled web they weave,
          when first they practice to deceive…

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          • … and tearfully hold up a pair of high heeled shoes…

            “he.. he… made me wear… sob… THESE!”

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        • I know my wife doesn’t appreciate my contributions here. It reads as misogyny 101. I love how Men’s Rights = Misogyny. Sheesh!

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          • That was my initial reaction as well until I started spending time on this site and educating myself — opening my mind to think outside my own interests. It has really balanced out my life by looking at the other side and feeling more compassion towards the burdens of men in our society.

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  15. keyster

    “…and cutting off the thing that essentially gives men their power seems like the best option.”

    Yes indeed, having a penis makes me feel so powerful.
    Or does NOT having one make you feel less powerful?

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    • Atlas Reloaded in reply to keyster

      I don’t go for the whole “man’s penis=man’s power” bullshit. Having looked back at history with red-pill in my veins it seems mostly the opposite to me.

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    • B.R. Merrick in reply to keyster

      keyster, you stole the words right out of my mouth. I don’t know if penis envy is an actual phenomenon or not, but I read nasty rhetoric like hers and I begin to wonder…

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    • Penis’ being a source of power, when they are mostly just a burden, is a result of projection. They try to imagine how they would feel with a penis and so it must be so. Another :Empathy:… fail!

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  16. tm

    This is another shocking story, nothing short of insanity, that we’ve come to almost expect on a regular basis. For some reason, what I find most scary is this:

    ‘she did what any scorned, ballsy woman would do’

    Even if this imbecile bigot intended it to be a joke, I’m still left speechless.

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  17. Kimski

    My hands are slightly shaky and my heart is pounding from anger, but I still managed to enter this on her site:

    ‘Are your husband/father/brother/son completely aware of, how deep your hate for the male gender actually runs??
    The article and the first comments on this page, are some of the most despicable and discusting remarks and statements I have read, since the last time a female blog-writer couldn’t come up with something original, and chose to return to the ever-efficient male-bashing. It is totally beyond logical reasoning, that you can actually compare beating, lying and cheating with the sexual mutilation of another being..-Oh, wait, logic is not an issue here, we are talking about ‘fe-ewings’, right?!
    With this article you truly have made yourself worthy of being in the garbage can, with the other pieces of female litter on register-her.com. Congratulations with your new, and rightfully deserved, entry.’

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  18. jennamk

    Now I’m even more pissed you put me on here. That is a HORRIBLE thing she advocated and you throw me in the same pot when all I did was post a stat I thought was accurate and later apologized. Unreal.

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    • “That is a HORRIBLE thing she advocated and you throw me in the same pot”

      Absolutely motherfucking right.

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    • Do not be pissed, be happy that you can self improve. So many people are lost and you do not have to live like that any more.

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    • Are you really so oblivious to the fact that one thing thing leads to another, that you are completely incapable of seeing the bigger picture here?

      Do you think the hangings in the South started out with some people just getting together one day, sayin’:
      ‘-Hey, let’s go hang a black man!’?

      Or that the killing and burning of jews in the nazi concentration camps wasn’t a result of years of indoctrination of the public sphere?

      Or that this same kind of indoctrination has been going on for the last 50 years in the western world,-destroying families, the lifes of boys and men, and the very fabric of society?

      Or that your statements on your blog fits perfectly into the very same sort of discriminative hate and bigotry?

      Are you so totally incapable of seeing what is so blatantly obvious to everyone, except those that actually benefit from it?

      Oh, wait…I think I just described you with that last question there, then.

      -You are ALL going on register-her.com, before this gets completely out of hand.

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    • You have not made appropriate restitution to the men that you have harmed by your bigotry. You are a horrible person and you deserve to be publicly outed.

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    • It is clear that you have not learned. Is it therefore correct that you belong in the same “pot”.

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    • Unfortunately, we do not live in normal times. Things are weird and warped now, due to half a century of feminist programming, and harsh lessons need to be instilled before we can purge this great evil from our midst.

      Putting it briefly, you did the WRONG thing in the political context of these times, and ignorance does not excuse you. Especially considering the half-baked, half-assed character of your ‘apology’.

      Others may profit by your example, and learn where not to step in the present political and cultural mine field.

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    • It’s really un-believable to piss and moan at the same time one is pretending to apologize. Your ‘unreality’ will never be heard before you TRULY hear the unreality of some man being moved from his airline seat next to someone else’s little girl because he is automatically considered a pedophile. For most men, child sex crime related shame is worse than death (which is why male sex criminals are so often murdered in prison). You need to REALLY LISTEN to how UNREAL you were (or ARE since you can’t be bothered to report correct child sex crime stats) before you piss and moan about how unreal sharing the pot with another evil woman is.

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  19. victorsvoice

    Women are the more caring, understanding, nurturing and compassionate sex, my ass.

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    • My HAIRY MAN ass!!

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      • And let me echo what I once said..women’s egos are less fragile than men’s MY ASS!

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        • That one always has me ROFL’in. :D

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          • Atlas Reloaded in reply to Kimski

            I have yet to see women handle what they PERCEIVE as insults from men they are invovled with…with any measure of sanity, sensibility or fucking accountability for that matter.

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          • When I hear this I always remind myself, that it’s coming from a gender that will remember an insult until the day that she dies, even when it’s only meant as a joke. And you’ll be held responsible for it for years after the actual event when in a discussion.
            Like you said…-My ass!

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  20. the hermit

    Watch this bullshit:

    http://thestir.cafemom.com/in_the_news/127465/women_who_raped_17_men

    She gets what she deserved.

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  21. I left the following response at Nicole’s article:

    “Very well, Nicole. So if we reverse the sexes in the same scenario, would you give the green light to a husband who might commit a mastectomy or cliterodectomy (with scissors) on his wife? Of course you wouldn’t, or else you would have included that thought in your article. Admit it, you are a man-hating feminist. You think that men are dirtbags.”

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  22. CastleD

    I can’t imagine having the desire to cut off a women’s clitoris in retaliation for something she did to me. The thought of that has never crossed my mind.

    These women are disgusting.

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    • “I can’t imagine having the desire to cut off a women’s clitoris in retaliation for something she did to me. The thought of that has never crossed my mind. “

      I know that the huge majority of men would say likewise. That is, if I know men at all. Try introducing that suggestion into a social gathering of men nearly anywhere, and watch it crash like a lead balloon along with your social standing. You would not even remotely see them tittering and cackling a la Sharon Osborne and Co.

      Two possibilities here: either women on average harbor such feelings more than men do, or the culture in general permits women to be OPEN about such feelings.

      Neither possibility has lovely implications.

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      • Yep, in all my years I’ve never heard any man joke or mention in any way the violent harming of a woman’s clit, or entire vagina for that matter. (Unless it’s some type of sex joke, such as “I’d like to bang her hard” or “tear that pussy up”, things like that. But obviously these are simply harmless expressions of sexual desire, at the most just rude.)

        I don’t hear men joke about raping a woman either.

        Why does it happen? It’s like you said and it’s goes back to the old thing, men are seen as disposable, which is based on biology and extended out to culture. I also think some women hold deep resentment for men because… well, they feel inferior to men as a group and are envious and jealous of a few things. (like we don’t have the annoying menstrual cycle, we’re judged less based on our looks, we’re bigger and stronger, we generally age better, etc.)

        Some of this envy and jealousy grows into psychopathic bitterness and hate.

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        • I have heard ABOUT so-called “rape jokes”, since the feminists go on about them quite a bit.

          But I have never actually heard a rape joke issuing from anybody’s mouth in real life.

          Maybe I just don’t get around enough in the right circles.

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          • I’ve heard some feminists complain that some video gamers will say the expression “you got raped” to someone who lost badly in a video game. They say this is “norming” rape and part of our “rape culture,” meanwhile it never has anything to do with women. I don’t like the expression myself, but by far the most jokes I hear about ACTUAL rape are male prison rape jokes.

            **Feminists and enablers love the word norm and normative and probably norm mcdonald. Anytime someone uses the word norm and social construct, you know you’re dealing with a gender studies or college indoctrinated drone.

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          • @CastleD Recently in Australia a TV rugby commentator said team A had raped team B when they beat them by a large margin. Feminists complained and he had to make a cringing public apology to women in the media. There was talk that he should be fired from his job for demeaning women.

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          • Bev those types of public apologies make me cringe. The man usually has no choice unless he wants to give up his career. He’s forced into it by feminists AND white knights. White knights who are more concerned about bowing down to vagina than what is best for his fellow man. They sicken me and I’m glad there is going to be a white knight registry soon.

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  23. tm

    On Google she’s already front page toward the top. :)

    One detail though: I googled her name on register-her but for some reason there were no matches:

    http://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en&q=nicole+fabian-weber+site:register-her.com&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8

    True, I don’t know anything about how Google searches work. Maybe somebody like Alek Novy could chime in.

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  24. Kimski

    Okay, who’s next? :)

    I’ve really wanted to see Sharon Osbourne go on register-her.com ever since I saw her smug, selfsatisfied snickering, when she was ordered to excuse her discusting comments on The Talk.
    -Not to mention the actual comments.

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  25. Born Free

    I second Kimski’s motion to place Sharon Osborne on regsiter-her.com. She has a f***ing shrine to Lorena Bobbit, or so she said. How much more of an offensive bigot can you be?

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  26. Kim

    Good work, Paul. I left the following comment as ‘The Stir’ and followed it up with a blog post.

    “The author, and everyone on here who has commented agreeing with her sentiments, is a misandrist hypocrite. Unless, of course, you’re all willing and ready to advocate men who have been victims of abusive, philandering wives cutting out the genitals of their wives as retaliation? I didn’t think so.

    I have a male friend whose wife is a drug addict and a thoroughly unimpressive specimen of humanity. She has cheated on him on countless occasions. She treats their children like the unfortunate family gerbil who’s left forgotten in his cage, only to be brought out on occasion to entertain company or what not. She is abusive and she is cruel. She is also a product of her addiction. Addiction changes people and destroys the lives of all around them. Personally, I think he should take the children and leave her. She has done far too much harm already and he needs to put the welfare of the children first. I have not, however, recommended him taking a kitchen knife and, upon finding her in her latest drug induced stupor, cutting out her vagina and throwing it down the trash compactor. I can’t even write that without getting the chills and feeling nauseous. Yet, look how cavalierly Ms. Fabian-Weber along with a multitude of other like minded individuals in society, discuss the similar mutilation of a man.

    Not only do women justify the irreparable mutilation of men…they applaud it; they laugh and make jokes about it; they call it empowering and herald each new horrific incident as an act of heroic justice. Frankly, I find it all very chilling. We are, after all, talking about actual human beings. Men are not merely symbols of female victimization, to be discarded and used as we see fit in order to further ‘the female cause’. “

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  27. MSFM

    This woman is evil.
    As Fidelbogen alluded to, practice of this vicious act seems to be gaining momentum, or perhaps it is simply getting more exposure.
    Women follow trends, and fads, however depraved.

    Regarding her comment about “ballsy” women.
    I’ve grown so incredibly tired of that phrase and variations of it.
    The feminist ideology is beyond dysfunctional.
    Women who clearly hate men and the qualities they perceive as being masculine, who demand deification of the feminine while eschewing the very qualities that define femininity, brag and boast about being “ballsy.”
    WTF?

    Sorry, attempting to make sense of this…

    Good job Paul.
    This woman is a nasty peace of work.

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  28. Ben

    Paul, I could put that same question in a campus survey and most college girls would likely answer in the affirmative. The only difference between this registered bigot and a modern woman is her position in the lime light. Angry Harry put it so succintly when he said I don’t know who you are sir, but if your partner cut off your penis tonight the whole world would laugh.”

    How do we deal with this as men? As a normal healthy male of reproductive age, I innately care about women more than anything else. The misandric programming in modern women ruins this most fundamental male biological instinct when it is identified.

    I do not see women anymore. I don’t know what they are but they are not women….

    I am an MRA because I actually care about women, not these harridans, whores, entitled princesses, etc. But I will not tolerate being manipulated in the hypergamous model, particularly by these creatures posing as women.

    I think misogyny is largely engineered in men as a reaction. Misogyny would have been an evolutionary random mutation and, thus, would not have been selected. I think culture engineered misogyny. I think that a lot of men who self identify as misogynists merely hate bigotry and feminist poison. They just do not know where to direct it.

    Just my thoughts at the moment. Thanks for your service to humanity, Paul. I wish I could help out more.

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    • “I think misogyny is largely engineered in men as a reaction”

      To quote a commenter on my blog:

      ‘Rich Zubaty gave the perfect response to a feminist on his YouTube page when she reproached him for being a misogynist. He said, “Yeah, I hate women. But I wasn’t born hating them.”’

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    • ‘I think misogyny is largely engineered in men as a reaction. Misogyny would have been an evolutionary random mutation and, thus, would not have been selected. I think culture engineered misogyny. I think that a lot of men who self identify as misogynists merely hate bigotry and feminist poison. They just do not know where to direct it.’

      I think you may absolutely be onto something here, Ben. Unfortunately, you will never ever get any woman of today to even think about it. Excellent post.

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  29. Rper1959

    Thanks Paul,here we go again. Outing these bigots one at a time. Have added my comment to her blog.Thanks for the opportunity to add my voice to the growing chorus.

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  30. I am thrilled to see this.

    While this sort of crap might have been deemed somehow acceptable during in the dark ages before the Internet, those days are over. Too many of us are on to you, Fabian-Weber. You can’t publicly support mutiliating men (without due process, I might add) without a ton of people calling you on it.

    While the venerable Baseball Hall of Fame is watered down with questionable players like Joe Tinker, Johnny Evers, and Frank Chance (they got in because someone wrote a poem about them), Paul is not watering down the offenders registry with people we merely disagree with. These are folks who truly deserve to be on the list because their hatred puts them in a league of their own. I am sure Paul will maintain the integrity of the registry.

    And most important: people will know them by the company they keep.

    It is my fervent hope that people on the registry find themselves having difficulty obtaining gainful employment because of their extremist, vile, hateful views.

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  31. Stu

    We are well into territory where a woman chopping of a guys dick, or killing him, is proof that he is a violent worthless human being. It’s also proof that the woman was a victim of years of abuse of all kinds, without even an allegation being made. This is the mindset of the typical woman now. Most are like this.

    Tell any woman a story, about a woman who ties her husband up, crushes his balls slowly in a vice, burns his cock off with a blow torch, cuts his legs off and eats them, and finally burns him to death, video taping it and filing the dvd with her collection of violent child porn….and all you will get is…..gee…..that guy must have been a real monster…….that poor woman.

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    • That is absolutely correct. I predict a trend of women cutting off their husband’s reproductive organs with knives and scissors while they are chained to beds. And most women will cheer about it. Perhaps the Indian government will start paying women to do this on tv. Then the US, UK, Canada, and Australia will do the same. Maybe it will be part of a new reality tv show with real carnage. Maybe an entire tv channel will be dedicated to it due to the outstanding ratings it will receive. We live in a sick world.

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  32. Stu

    We have to get Dr F’s cartoons back in the comments and articles. Without the funnies it’s all gloom and doom isn’t it. By the way, does anybody know what’s happened to him?

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  33. Fr Bob

    Not only is this woman promoteing sexual mutilation of men; she is advocating a system of justice where the person who has been wronged or even precieve that they have been wronged as the arresting officer, judge, jury and executioner. When does this madness end? My fear is that JTO is right that we will see a revolution of sorts where you will see women bleeding in the streets. Because unfortunately pendulems don’t swing back to the center. My hope is that we are able to lessen the pressure on this side of the swing so when it returns to the other side that it don’t get to the extream of violence in the streets.

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  34. micksbabe

    Back when John Wayne Bobbitt had his penis severed under similar circumstances, I remember reading that women cutting off their man’s penis is a fairly common occurrence in third world countries. And I’m not surprised that both Bobbitt’s ex-wife and Fabian-Weber’s heroin both hail from non-industrialized nations. What does surprise me is that Fabian-Weber justifies this heinous act, here in a country where not only divorces are easy to recieve, but also where women profit heavily from divorce.

    Another backwards movement for women’s causes.

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  35. Nicole Fabian-Weber.

    I say, what’s with all these hyphenated surnames?

    I guess it reflects a certain . . what shall I say. . . attitude of detachment?

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  36. BeijaFlor

    My comment, as posted on CafeMom:

    “Nicole Fabian-Weber, The barbaric action of “Pan” is horrifying. Your snarky comments about it, your blatant misandric applause of it, are disgusting. This is nothing short of hate speech on your part, and you are nothing short of a reprehensible and repulsive BIGOT. Doe your husband knows how you approve of such mutilation? If so, I bet he sleeps very lightly and uneasily. You are a disgrace to humanity.”

    Oh – and I also e-mailed “CafeMom” about it, saying that Ms. Weber’s column on that act of penis-mutilation was “HATE SPEECH, nothing less.”

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  37. Boxer

    I’m told this is the bigot’s facebook page:

    http://www.facebook.com/mynameisnicolefabianweber

    She certainly seems to be a hideous piece of work. Good luck with this one.

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  38. Free Human Being

    See I like this. Imagine if every bigot who uses Misandry to make a bigoted point gets called on it and ends up realizing it.

    This could open a few eyes. Time to scour the net. F

    FTSU

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  39. Stu

    OT time

    Latest from the fairer sex

    http://news.ninemsn.com.au/world/8366009/children-locked-in-wire-dog-kennel

    I wonder if she participates in toilet duties at her kids school…..if they go to school. Maybe this was the beginning of her attempt to transpecies her kids. Yeah, that’s it, she wanted cats and dogs instead of kids.

    How the hell do you have a seven year old transgendered boy. I’ll tell you how, the mother wanted a girl and turned him into one.

    http://news.ninemsn.com.au/article.aspx?id=8366089

    Kaz was reading an artical the other day about two lesbians that were going to court to be allowed to put their 11yo son on hormones to prevent puberty so he’ll make a better transwoman when he gets old enough to have the operations. I can’t beleive the court is even considering it.

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  40. andybob

    Read the bio. This little charmer puts her husband on a par with her shih tzu. No doubt she’s had them both neutered and placed in their designated dimly lit corners.

    She works in TV. That’s why most of the male characters on sit-coms these days are so dickless. Writers like her are just projecting their fantasies onto their creations. I know this sounds naive, but I am still shocked that a functioning professional like her feels comfortable about parading such savage and inhumane cruelty as knee-slapping comedy. She’s demented.

    She writes in a vein that makes it clear that she expects to be met with unwavering approval from her readers. This is why the likes of Mizzes Fabian-Weber and Meyers Karvunidis (the double-barrelled pretention is emblematic of their goddess complexes) must not be underestimated. The ever-expanding reach of these suburban bloggers is as much a problem as indentured high-profilers like Mizzes Marcotte and Vallenti. They’re cut from the same cloth – it’s just that one has bunnies on it.

    Even the name, ‘Mommy Bloggers’ is meant to mislead. They think it imbues them with a kind of fluffy madonna sanctity mixed with sacrifice and sacharine that renders them above criticism. Placing them on Register-her.com makes it clear no-one gets a pass when their public pronouncements promote the kind of bigotry that we are fighting against.

    No reprieve. Another life sentence with stale mouldy bread and rancid water.

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  41. “Spend lots of time online. Don’t eat dairy. Big fan of puppies.”

    She eats puppies?!?!Call the ASPCA!

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  42. Her jinxed soul is cursed in hellfire. She will drink the scum of her blackened filth. I wish some bitch would try this on me, that would be the last anyone ever heard of her, except of course the ghosts of oblivion.

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  43. BTW, I understand some may interpret what I said as a threat. Well what this evil person Nicole Fabian-Weber said, is indeed a threat. Her article is basically the call to hurt men. I just want to make it clear, nobody is gonna hurt me, and if they try I will hurt them. Isn’t that fair? It’s not a threat, just a fact. I have absolutely no problem whatsoever in making this Nicole Fabian-Weber incapable of hurting me. It’s just totally natural. I would in fact enjoy destroying that artificial power she has with the reality of the truth. She better keep hiding behind that computer… Cuz If I ever see her, I would want to fight her, so she and those other little hell witches better just stay away from me.

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  44. tm

    One thing that’s really scary is how many women agree with her, find it justified, and seem to be ready to follow the example in the story.

    A bit OTish: on the other hand, I think men themselves (at least in this culture) are guilty of allowing and even encouraging such talk. Occasionally I read several vehicle forums where the members are almost all male. Many times I’ve been shocked to see posts from men joking about what their wives (or as they call them with a lame, self deprecating acronym, SWMBO) would do to them if they bought another expensive ‘toy’ for the garage (obviously from their own income). I remember one of them saying, ‘my wife would castrate me with a dull knife’, and others said similar things. All the effing time. And these are not some pansies, but otherwise tough, brave manly men. The other day one of them was telling somebody to ‘man up’ and pay a traffic ticket. I noticed that in his signature line he had something about ‘mama who needs to be happy’ BS.

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  45. Paul Elam

    The disgusting blog post still remains on that site. It is time to put pressure on management as well as the blogger herself.

    This is what I wrote them:

    I and writing this out of shock and disgust regarding the 10/18/11 article by Nicole Fabian-Weber, “Wife Cuts Off Husband’s Penis & Chucks It in the River”

    Is this the kind of blogging that your organization condones, that of advocating sexual mutilation and of turning such heinous behavior into a punchline?

    In her article Fabian-Weber sinks into depravity and literally glorifies the sexual disfigurement of an unconscious and defenseless man, inspiring her readers to find merit and justification in those actions.

    Are you aware this is written on the pages of your blogs? And now that you are definitely aware, are you going to sit by and do nothing about it? Or is it the position of your management that this is appropriate speech for your website and therefore condone it?

    This blog post needs to be removed, as well as the blogger who wrote it. It is a bigoted, hateful disgrace.

    Kind regards,

    Paul Elam

    Here is there contact form:

    http://thestir.cafemom.com/contact

    I am asking that ten of you minimum send in a complaint about that blog post.

    If they do not respond, or do not comply, we will know their failure is intentional.

    If that turns out to be the case, I am going to initiate a campaign against the website, bit more pointedly the management team that runs it. I have already taken their info and have it on record.

    Fire up those keyboards guys. We CANNOT allow them to fail to address this.

    That unspeakably foul blog post must come down.

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    • Paul – Done.

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    • Done.

      Dear Sir/Madam.

      I am writing you this to let you know that you have a very, very disturbed individual in your employment. I am referring to the blog-writer Nicole Fabian-Weber and her recent article on The Stir on 10/18/11: “Woman Cuts Off Husbands’s Penis And Chucks It In The River.”

      It is nothing short of bigotry and hatecriming on the most repulsive level, and she even goes so far as to try to inspire your readers into justifying the actions of an even more twisted individual. -The following is a couple of examples thereof:

      “-and cutting off the thing that essentially gives men their power seems like the best option. And it probably is.”

      “I must admit, I’ve always admired a woman who has the cojones to cut off a man’s weenus. [sic]”

      After calling the victim of a sexual mutilation a “dirtbag of a husband,” and inferring that his lack of income was part of the rationale for severing his penis from his body and throwing it in a river, she then proceeds this bigotry and glorification of sexually mutilating another human being with this question to your readers:

      “Do you think cutting off a man’s penis is a suitable punishment after enduring years of emotional and physical abuse?”

      Taking the second example into consideration, it is quite clear what Nicole Fabian-Weber’s opinion on the subject is, and I would very much like to know if you condone this sort of bigotry and hate on your pages and if we, as readers, can expect more of this in the future??

      Should you be unaware of the content of said article, you have now gotten fair notice, and I would also like to know what I am supposed to tell my boy, when he picks up filth like this and starts asking questions regarding it?

      I myself are quite shocked and repulsed by the content and sentiments of the article, and I strongly suggest that said article be removed instantly, and that Nicole Fabian-Weber is immediately removed from any possibility of further adressing the public in writing or speech.

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    • Sent.

      Subject:Nicole Fabian-Weber : “Woman Cuts Off Husbands’s Penis And Chucks It In The River.”
      ——————
      Judging by this article, you appear to condone sexual mutilation as a punishment, for men anyway.

      Your web site caters for moms with children. Do you advocate such punishment for children too? If not, from what age does your approval start?

      If you are promoting such punishment for children, then surely this should be pointed out to your readers.

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    • Mine:

      In an era when we tell our sons they must never engage in gendered violence, Nicole Fabian-Weber (“Wife Cuts Off Husband’s Penis & Chucks It in the River,” 10/18/11) celebrates sexual mutilation when the genders are reversed. Your Web site has done a grave disservice to our children by running that piece, and you should pull it now.

      Without even a hint of due process, without a scrap of evidence being considered by a trier of fact, Ms. Fabian-Weber arrogates to all women the right to exact the most gruesome vigilante “justice” on any “member” of any member of the opposite sex.

      By what rationale is such a despicable display of gender get-evenism acceptable to your Web site?

      We can tell our sons that gendered violence is unacceptable until we’re blue in the face, but when they see that it’s OK when mommy does it, they won’t bother drawing those fine-line, politically correct distinctions you seem to take for granted, and they’ll assume it must be OK when daddy does it, too.

      Is that the kind of shameful example you want to set?

      Sincerely,
      Pierce Harlan

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    • TruthInAdvertising in reply to Paul Elam

      Sent this-

      Dear Cafe Mom team,

      I read with disgust Nicole Fabian-Weber’s recent article “Wife Cuts Off Husband’s Penis & Chucks It in the River”

      As you have no doubt received complaints about this already, yet it still remains on your website, I can only assume that celebrating genital mutilation will now be a regular theme at your website. As I type this, I’m looking at Energizer batteries, Sony Entertainment Network, and CVS minute clinic ads. I’m sure all three of these fine corporations will be interested to learn about Cafemom’s approval of violent assault and genital mutilation.

      Good day.

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    • I have sent an email as you instructed Paul.
      All for One, and One for All!

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    • How about this? I sent it to the contact address a few minutes ago.

      “Would you publish an article cheering about a white man who “got even” with a black man, who had wronged him some way, by cutting off his ear while he was drugged and unconscious?

      “Would you publish an article cheering about a person (irrespective of gender) who dealt with a “nuisance” dog by cutting off its tail?

      “Would you publish an article cheering about a man who “got even” with his abusive wife by cutting off one of her breasts while she was drugged and unconscious?

      “I’m sure you snapped “Of course not!” at each question. Any of those articles would be shouted down and shut down before it ever got onto The Stir! Right?

      “These hypothetical articles, placed alongside your publishing of Nicole Fabian-Weber’s “Wife Cuts Off Husband’s Penis” article of October 18th, reveals to me that you have less empathy for men than you have for dogs.

      “Back at the beginning of the Twentieth Century, they called this stuff “yellow journalism.” When our grandparents saw it in 1930s Germany they called it vile propaganda. And now you call it suitable entertainment for moms with children.

      “I want to underline my disgust with you. If this is an example of “mommy culture” I’m glad I had a vasectomy. I would not want any child of mine growing up in such a culture, and I would not trust anyone like Nicole Fabian-Weber with a child of mine.”

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    • First post and my letter:

      Dear editors and owners of this site, Tracy Odell, et al

      I can not believe you permitted an article such as this on your site.
      http://thestir.cafemom.com/in_the_news/127533/wife_cuts_off_husbands_penis?next=1

      Said article by Nicole Fabian sensationalizes violence done by women against men and provides an encouragement for a heinous violent act.
      What women like Fabian don’t seem to realize is that violence is not the answer.
      If violence is the answer it was a stupid question.

      I am not sure what will become of this woman (Pan) but given where the crime was committed I am sure watered down versions of law will not be afforded to her, and rightfully so. For her crime of assault she apparently faces a sentence of 12 years and deserves to serve every single day of that not one less. She did make the allegation that she was abused This needs to be confirmed in a court of law not in a court of public opinion.
      Ms Fabian in her article has already given her blessings to the criminal acts of Pan “So she did what any scorned, crazed woman would do”
      By Ms Fabian’s reckoning if a man was scorned and committed a despicable act of violence against a woman it would be alright?
      Is this the message your e-zine wishes to promote?
      That if your scorned by your partner you have every right to maim and disfigure them permanently for life?
      If that is the case then your whole organizations needs to be brought before a court of law and held liable for producing and promoting hate literature against an enumerated group.

      I am requesting that you do the right thing and remove Ms Fabian from your contributing writers as well remove the hate and violence condoning article.
      A failure to do so would amount to a silent approval of her hate literature and collusion in creating and spreading hate literature by your organization.
      I am sure that your blog / web-zine does not wish to be recognized as a hate literature spreading establishment.
      A failure to address this issue would have far reaching implications and reactions. They will not be of the kind that Ms Fabian glamorizes but should be of a more sane response such as a letter writing campaign to your sponsors.

      A response in writing to the above addy would be appropriate and appreciated.

      Dan. P.

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  46. U know. I think we are doing this whore devil Nicole Fabian-Weber a favor, by having this offender’s registry and putting her on it. This black witch of hellfire needs to be put down and criticized, she actually NEEDs us to HELP her by pointing out how fucked up she is as a “human being”. I hate how everything men does helps women, even if we are trying to take retributive action against them. God that pisses me off.

    I think it’s sad that God is too fucking tolerant of these screaming agonies. I think this bitch should be scattered, condemned and bored down on with heaviness and power. Why can’t God just crush her? She is of the kind of nothing, a trifling useless corpus of infected snot. Why not scatter her like a ghost exorcized from our universe?

    These people are evil, they don’t deserve even to be spoken of. It only assists them, they should just be blackened away in the tar of antimatter.

    IMHO.

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  47. Bev

    It seems to be the “in” thing.
    http://www.chroniclelive.co.uk/north-east-news/breaking-news/2011/10/25/wrekenton-woman-admits-biting-off-boyfriend-s-testicles-72703-29658869/

    English woman facing jail term after biting off boyfriend’s testicles

    She did plead guilty but says she cannot remember as they were drunk. The defence is seems to be attempting to downgrade the offence because there was violence on both side. They don’t say in the article but it seems she did not receive serious injuries (we would have heard about them if she had). She is to be sentenced at a later date.

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    • “Violence was used on both sides” sounds like some spin on self-defence.
      But, we can’t call it self-defence against a “helpless” female violent criminal. If the shock allowed functioning for a few minutes after I would not hold him responsible if she required full dentures after that attack.

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  48. Muk

    I like that most of the commenters were calling her out for her sexism before the MRM got involved

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  49. Tim Legere

    Done.

    On October 18, 2011 Nicole Fabian-Weber wrote an article titled “Wife Cuts Off Husband’s Penis & Chucks It in the River”

    In this article Ms. Fabian-Weber condones male mutilation.

    Does this Blog agree with her position?

    If not what will Management do to rectify this important issue?

    At a minimum I suggest that the Blog be removed and that Ms. Fabian-Weber be terminated for her unacceptable bigotry and hate speech.

    Sincerely,
    Tim Legere

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  50. Muk

    “THIS JUST IN ON CBS:
    Husband KILLS abusive wife in self defense, after she CUT his penis off!”

    That’s what the headlines would be saying if this shit happened to me

    No, seriously, I don’t say this often, if ever, but I think I could kill the bitch who thought it was cool to go chopping away at ANYTHING on my body.

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    • Not that I don’t agree but, the MSM would more likely report, “Wife cuts of man penis during attack in which she died”.
      The facts don’t sell as well as sensationalism and half-truths. In the Katherine Becker case you only have to look at how quickly the very 1st questions on the lips of the hags on The Talk turned to “What did he do to deserve this?”. And, that wasn’t an incedulous question, they actually believe he deserved it and they are only missing the information on why he SHOULD have had his genitals removed and destroyed.

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  51. Hey Paul,

    We keep mentioning Sharon Osbourne in connection with her hateful comments on “The Talk” as well as other comments she’s made about castrating men.

    Why isn’t she on Register-her.com? She is far more deserving than many of the people already on there. Her public image as a manhater and the millions of women she influences makes her especially dangerous to men and deserving of being recognized as a bigot.

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  52. tm

    Tech question: why does it go to a ‘redirect’ website that’s called hidemyass.com when I click on nfw’s post link in this article?

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  53. paddybrown

    My complaint to the Cafemom site:

    Nicole Fabian-Weber’s article “Wife Cuts Off Husband’s Penis & Chucks It in the River” on 18 October 2011 celebrates sexual violence by women against men. She says “I’ve always admired a woman who has the cojones to cut off a man’s weenus” – not even a qualification about the man being abusive, which is the usual excuse for female violence against men, any woman who intimately mutilates any man is to be admired – and the only reason she hasn’t done it herself is that she thinks she would find the experience unpleasant herself – she thinks it “would probably be more punishment for me than the man itself”. That “itself” is pretty revealing. Fabian-Weber apparently doesn’t consider men to be human, so is it any wonder she thinks the only negative consequence worth mentioning of this kind of violence is to the person committing it?

    This article is a disgrace, and you are a disgrace for publishing it. Remove it, and remove Fabian-Weber from your payroll.

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  54. Boxer

    I sent a polite complaint to CafeMom through the online form. I’m sure it’ll be discarded.

    Why don’t we begin commenting on her more recent posts also?

    http://thestir.cafemom.com/entertainment/128010/kate_middleton_channels_princess_di#comments

    I’m sure that her readers would like to know that they’re supporting a hate-filled sexist and racist bigot, who publicly celebrates and cheers the mutilation and torture of non-white men.

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  55. The WolfMan

    Here is my contribution…

    CafeMom, The Stir,or…Whatever,

    Ya know, I’ve tried. I’ve really, really tried to be understanding. After 10 years of police work, in which I was involved in domestic violence arrest after domestic violence arrest that bore more resemblance to a playground pigtail pulling than “The Burning Bed,” after a grand total of 1 (count’em, ONE) rape call that wasn’t laughably, provably false (and that case ended up being turned over to another jurisdiction – it was a mistake I even got assigned it), after sitting through in-service after in-service mandatory traing that bore no more relation to reality than a “Lifetime” movie, I went on with my life and tried to just live and let live.
    But Nicole Fabian Weber’s celebration of yet another genital mutilation has made up my mind. I will continue to go on with my life. And whenever I hear about a man being violent to a woman, I will ask myself this question – is what he did worse – or not as bad as – cutting out her vagina? If he stands accused of anything less than that, I’m not even going to be bothered by it. And if I’m on a jury, and he is accused of anything less than that, I care not if God himself appears to testify against him – my vote is “Not Guilty.”
    But don’t worry ladies – you will still come out ahead.
    Because I won’t laugh about it.
    The battle has been joined. Men are finally showing up for the gender war. If you don’t like it, remember something, sugar boogers – you drew the battle lines, and set the terms of engagement.
    Great blog entry. Hope you are very proud of it.

    The Wolfman

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    • The battle has been joined. Men are finally showing up for the gender war. If you don’t like it, remember something, sugar boogers – you drew the battle lines, and set the terms of engagement.

      En garde bitches.

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  56. Elder Swami

    hey all, is there anything I can do about this cae?
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3xHVknm2rSY&feature=feedlik

    I want to do something, but don’t know what?

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  57. Primal

    “She will remain on the registry as long as that unfortunate man does not have a penis.”

    Rabble rousing is easy but unlikely to get the job done long term. Fabian-Weber didn’t do the cutting crime so there is no reason for her to do the cutting time. Fabian-Weber did the bigot blogging (which is no crime), an evil which she needs to correct as soon as possible or be infamous forever but she isn’t responsible for the other cruel woman’s crime.

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  58. andybob

    My complaint letter:

    “Re: Nicole Fabian-Weber (“Wife Cuts Off Husband’s Penis & Chucks It in the River,” 10/18/11).

    As you may be aware, the above article has severely damaged the credibility and repuation of your website. Promoting an atrocity as violent and repugnant as sexual mutilation is indefensible. The gross irresponsibility of celebrating a crime of this nature casts as much doubt on the morality of the hosts as it does on the character of the author.

    One wonders if you approve of such violence because it was perpetrated against a man. If so, on behalf of your sons, brothers and fathers, shame on you. I can only hope that they can forgive the smirking nonchalance of your naked bigotry. I never will.

    Ms Fabian-Weber must post an unconditional apology to your readers within the next three days. Failure to comply will result in an unrelenting Internet campaign warning potential readers to avoid this blog.

    Parading bigotry on a site that pretends to cater to family-friendly interests is unacceptable. Once again: SHAME ON YOU.”

    Did you notice the shaming language?

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  59. Boxer

    Oh, look, now the bigot is being paid by The Learning Channel to sit on panels and talk about male impotence and infertility.

    http://thestir.cafemom.com/pregnancy/128027/talking_about_infertility_is_hard

    Launch your larts now…

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    • “Infertility is a heartbreaking thing, in a loving marriage.

      “Wonder if TLC realized they brought in such a “sharp” proponent of “male-infertility treatment” as they did in Nicole Fabian-Weber?

      “(Sarcasm very intentional. Check out her post on October 18th – where she cheers for a woman who cut off her husband’s penis and chucked it in the river.)”

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    • AND I went through the Discovery Communications contact system to post this:

      “The program, “A Conception Story,” is not listed in your pull-down menu.

      “Are you aware of the calibre of panel “guest” you have in Nicole Fabian-Weber, who boasted in her blog today about participating in this show?

      “Last week she posted a particularly hateful blog on ‘Cafe Mom’ praising a woman who cut off her husband’s penis and threw it in the river.

      “Look on register-her.com for her record. Are you sure you want to have such hateful bigots on your shows?”

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  60. James Huff

    Wrote this little gem to the site:

    “I represent a number of interested parties concerning the piece written by Nicole Fabian-Weber entitled “Wife Cuts Off Husband’s Penis & Chucks It in the River.”

    We are interested in either hearing a response from this blog site as to why this post remains active, even though it obviously promotes male genital mutilation, or seeing this author’s post removed. The author of the post takes a light stance on the issue, which is unacceptable to those parties I represent.

    I can assure you that if this is not addressed, that there will be an investigation as to the complicity of your organization in allowing hate speech on this site, and the full extent of the laws concerning hate speech will be leveled at this organization. We will start with a complaint to the ACLU and will move on from there.

    I have already secured PDF copies of the post in question, for use in the courts of law, and will be approaching local and national news organizations with the post. We will also be approaching your advertisers with the information we have compiled, and will push to boycott them, or have them remove you from their lists.

    We already know that your organization has been contacted on several occasions by private individuals who wish to see this post taken down, and we have secured their correspondence with you as well.

    Your continued inaction will do great discredit to your organization, and will harm your reputation with every passing day. We demand you remove the offending blog post at once.

    Sincerely,
    James Huff
    VP, Huff Consultants, Inc.”

    I hope that bitch chokes on it if they show her that I am prepared to do exactly what I have written. I give them 3 business days, then I am going out for blood.

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  61. Guarantee this vulture sucking off the tit of the feminist/misandry/demoncrat party was pumping her fist at the evil Dick Cheney and G.W. Bush when they were waterboarding and using enhanced interrogation tactics against terrorists. The absolute bankruptcy, incoherence and abysmal void of integrity of feminists like Nikol Viruscunt-Weber has got to be one of the 8 wonders of the world. The vacancy is just too complete to comprehend.

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