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AVfM 2.0 recap, and some thank you’s

It is a simple truth. The men’s movement is growing, and in a way that is dangerous for feminists. God, writing that and knowing it is true borders on sexual excitement.

Recently we have seen a brave politician, an MP in Australia, standing up and calling out the fembots for the family destroying Nazis that they are.  Here in America Congressman Ted Poe publicly proclaimed that VAWA should be rewritten in gender neutral terms. And I have it on very good authority that a growing number of staffers and political elites on Capitol Hill are starting to recognize and embrace the fact that something is amiss in the system of feminist governance and needs to change.

The rhetoric I witness in comments and even in the works of syndicated columnists is beginning to take on a different tone.  Much of what I read is sentiments that could easily be culled from the articles and comments of places like AVfM and other MRA sites.

Who the hell is orry? I don’t know. He kind of came out of nowhere and then pitched in large with the bucks to help finance this thing during the transition.
Sure, misandric culture is hardly on its last legs, but the fact remains that a wind is starting to stir around the house of cards that feminists have deluded themselves into thinking of as a fortress.

And there is another factor that is slathering even more mortar between the bricks we are laying in this movement.  Unity and cooperation.  And it is happening on a level I thought would have been impossible three months ago.

If that trend continues, FTSU will become the status quo until we are able to put flowers on the grave of feminism, then unzip our pants and water them.

As I have been fond of droning on about around here, A Voice for Men has never looked so good.  And that means it is time to offer some overdue public thanks to some key people who made it possible.

First, I want to start with orry. Who the hell is orry? I don’t know. He kind of came out of nowhere and then pitched in large with the bucks to help finance this thing during the transition. Hats off to you brother, and I hope you have found a way to read here without killing your eyes.

The same for long-time supporters Stu and Izzey and Alphabeta Supe, who added more than their usual generosity to the pot. All the things we are doing now are pricier than ever, and these contributors, along with all of you that scraped the sofa cushions for a little extra to put in the coffers, are the only reason we are staying ahead of the game.

Well, not the only reason. We have also been gifted with some technical expertise on a level we have never had before.  Personally, I am first and foremost a writer. That means two almost universal truths. One, I can’t spell for shit, and two, I am a technical moron.  Mike LaSalle from MND took the old AVfM and put it into WordPress for the official 1.0 version of the site.

When it came to the site you are reading this on now, we had many people on the assist, but it was Alek Novy’s team that set their personal business into the hole, and it was Alek Novy that went without sleep for more than a week so he could lead his team to AVfM 2.0 with his invaluable expertise as lead developer for the project. Thanking Alek for what he did seems kind of lame and inadequate.  But I am here to do that just the same.

There is more good stuff on the way.

JtO (who actually can write and conjure technical wizardry), Keyster and myself have been meeting to fine tune the operations of AVfM Radio.  The intent here is to move up the quality of the show on par with the improvements you have all witnessed here at the website.

AVfM Radio has enormous potential.  Currently, between the live show, the BTR archives and posting them to YouTube (and soon iTunes) we have thousands of listeners to each episode. All that on a wing and a prayer, without proper formatting and organization.

We hope, and expect, that the radio program will be an increasingly devastating part two in the one-two punch of AVfM. We are working feverishly to accomplish that, with extreme prejudice.

And no, we have not forgotten register-her.com.  Like many of the projects we take on, they take longer than expected to do them correctly.  But with that project too, the correct version of it is definitely on the way.  JtO is hard at work, even as he takes a hefty workload from AVfM Radio and the demands of this website.  He will have it finished soon, though, and the press releases will start rolling out on a website we can all look at with pride and great expectation.

In conclusion, a brief recap on site matters here.  We are in the summer slowdown, only we have not slowed down at all in terms of traffic.  Despite being down for a week for the rebuild, we are still angling slowly for a place in the top 100,000 Alexa worldwide rankings.  Our traffic is still good and growing.

For Perseus and others that expressed concerns, the popular comments have been eliminated and replaced with a more aesthetically appealing list of recent comments near the bottom of the page.
Comments are slower, but that was actually part of the growth plan.  When we switched over to a system that requires users to register before they can comment we knew it would cause an immediate dip.  It also eliminated a lot of trolling and red thumb bandits.

And, as time goes by, we are confident that we will return to prior levels of commenting, only with (if you can imagine) even better quality of comments in general.

For Perseus and others that expressed concerns, the popular comments have been eliminated and replaced with a more aesthetically appealing list of recent comments near the bottom of the page.  We know many of you check that area and that it does, as Perseus indicated, enhance our sense of community.

I would like to suggest to regular commenters that you consider getting a Gravitar that will replace the image next to your name in the comments with something of your choosing. We are putting a lot of work into the appearance of the site and those images really help us toward that end.

Please keep your comments and suggestions coming in. We can’t say “yes” to all of them, but none of us here forget that your ideas and opinions are a critical component of making AVfM quite unlike any other online community of men.

About Paul Elam

Paul Elam is the founder and publisher of A Voice for Men, the founder of A Voice for Men Radio, the AVfM YouTube Channel, and appears weekly on AVFM Intelligence Report, Going Mental with Dr. Tara Palmatier and monthly on MANstream Media with Warren Farrell and Tom Golden.

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  • Robert Full Of Rage

    “The rhetoric I witness in comments and even in the works of syndicated columnists is beginning to take on a different tone. Much of it I read are sentiments easily culled from the articles and comments of places like AVfM and others.”

    I attend a medium-sized college. It’s pillars are built upon feminist rhetoric, but it is not as bad as AVFM commentators like Ben have described. The one thing I keep seeing is that most feminists melt before your very eyes when you stand up to them and hold your ground. When I speak up against misandry, I do so in a calm manner and use sound logical arguments. Feminists don’t have any power unless they are given power. Feminists are the bullies who think they are tough shit until they get their asses handed to them by tougher guys. Suddenly, they are meek and don’t cause any problems. Don’t be a feminist and let your emotions run your life.

    Some feminists are ignorant to facts, but there are a rare few who will listen to your side of the story. When I confronted my public speaking professor about her generalizations about men, she immediately backtracked and never made misandric statements in the class again, at least while I was in class. I know most feminists don’t give a damn about men, but that won’t stop me from making my voice heard. I don’t have tons of money to donate to AVFM and I am not much of a writer, but I can make a difference by speaking up in my daily life.

    While the MRM still has oceans to cross, it is nice to know we have taken feminism’s best shots, yet we continue to forge forward.

    Keep up the great work everyone.

    • http://aleknovy.com/ Alek Novy

      I agree with other people who suggested you need your own blog Robert. Every single one of your comments almost qualifies for an AVfM article onto itself.

      • scatmaster

        I totally agree Alek. I would like to hear more from Robert.

  • keyster

    Change is hard, but without it there can’t be progress.

    Thank you Alek Novy for putting so much time and effort into the new format and sharp look of the site.

    I’ll never stop being amazed that there are people like Paul, JTO, Bern, Harry, etc. that have the kind of courage and fortitude to speak out for men in the face of such a seemingly insurmountable social force and bias.

    I don’t know how you guys do it.

  • rebtus

    Paul Elam is so modest,
    “One, I can’t spell for shit, and two, I am a technical moron. Mike LaSalle from MND took the old AVfM and put it into WordPress for the official 1.0 version of the site.

    When it came to the site you are reading ”
    And Alex Novy is reat also. So “Three Musketeers? Paul, Mike and Alex got it together; Some other great people too.
    PS Mike La Salle, if you read this,my gratitude for the past.

  • Stu

    Well if Paul can’t spell for shit then I must be at the level of using spell check for “it” and “the” lol

    Btw, I haven’t been around as much not because of the extra effort it requires to actually use my log in to make comments, I’ve just got some projects that are eating up my time at the moment. But I’m still sending money, and that’s all that counts right? lol

    • http://aleknovy.com/ Alek Novy

      Hey Stu, your comments often end up on both the latest-comments and popular comments modules.

      Would you consider getting a gravatar so you don’t appear as a blank box on the sidebars?

      Here’s the instructions on getting a gravatar:
      http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/quick-announcement/comment-page-1/#comment-61041

      • BeijaFlor

        I tried to get a gravatar when I started following AVfM … but at that time it appeared to require me to start a blog.

        Just tried again, and kept on running into the message that my username BeijaFlor was already taken. When I tried to log in to that username with my e-mail address, I got “no such address” or words to that effect.

        So … I get to choose between keeping my username, or getting a gravatar.

        It sucks, but then a “beijaflor” sucks flowers….

        • http://aleknovy.com/ Alek Novy

          This site only pulls the image associated with the email adress at gravatar. It doesn’t pull your username – that’s private :)

          Meaning, if you register as username beijaflor1 at gravatar.com, that will not change how you appear on other sites.

          In fact, beijaflor1 would only be the username you use to login into gravatar.com and administer your gravatars – it doesn’t affect how you appear on other sites.

          http://en.gravatar.com/profiles/edit/?noclose#about-you

          The “DisplayName” field here, is where you choose how the world sees you. Meaning the username you use to login can be “somethingrandom23423″ but people see you as “CoolDude”

    • http://aleknovy.com/ Alek Novy

      the extra effort it requires to actually use my log in to make comments

      Note that you can tick the “remember me” box. That way the website should remember you pretty much forever. You won’t ever have to login again (unless you change computers).

  • Muk

    There is one thing that I would like to request, I know the site is still pretty new so I never bothered before now, but if you could get it to put the date/time on the comments that would be awesome.
    When there is a post submitted as a reply, then it stays up at the top, I often skip them and go to the bottom of the stack to look for what’s new

    • Whitney

      I find that to be a little problematic too. I find myself reading comments from April not realizing they are that old.

  • J3DIforce1

    AVFM is more bad ass then ever Paul : )

  • Kazza

    Hey Paul, nice one. And if Harry is the Father of the Mens Movement… then you Sir are his brother !!!!.

    If it wasnt for yourself, Angry Harry and a few other men around this world.. then the voices of men would be lost in the wildnerness of the Feminist world of disgust.

    And a reminder to people to ‘like’ A Voice for men on Facebook and to let all your friends know as well. I am trying to add the latest news/story updates on there. :)

  • Elder Swami

    Thats awesome lets keep the movment going strong!

  • Marx

    Great to see AVfM back online.

    It just shows what can happen when a dedicated team get together to produce a work of art.

  • Stu

    Testing my gravitar

    • Stu

      Ok, it works. Evil bastard aren’t I. That will do for now.

      • http://aleknovy.com/ Alek Novy

        Haha

        Best.
        avatar.
        ever!

        • http://www.avoiceformen.com Dr. F

          OI ! Best ever ?
          <—— What about this hhmmm ?

  • scatmaster

    I think the gravatar for Robert Full Of Rage should be William Holden from Network.

    http://i.imgur.com/V7D6G.jpg

  • Tim Legere

    The site just keeps getting better! I especially appreciate the effective use of white space. Again, congratulations to all involved.

  • Whitney

    The site looks great. Thank you to Paul first and foremost and to all who helped shape this amazing community.

    The commenters here are always very helpful, providing links, contacts and the occasional heads-up to current events.

    My ranking for websites:
    AVfM
    the-spearhead
    faserapesociety
    roissy (heartiste)

  • orry

    Thank you for the acknowledgement and my thanks to you Paul, JtO, Keyster, Alek, et al, for the terrific new site.

    Yes, the bright white background does bother my eyes but I have easily figured out a way around this. No worries.

    Coming out of nowhere? Ha! I was perusing AVFM for quite a while, quietly by stealth, before I became active and started commenting. It was the Sharon Osbourne incident combined with the BTR debacle that finally drew me out of the shadows.

    Woe to the feminist douchebags now because, as I freely admit, I am a terrible writer and have just enough technical expertise to be dangerous, I have the financial resources to help “fuck their shit up” in a very serious way.

    And to answer your question “who am I”? Well, I think the image below can explain that better than written words.

    http://i.imgur.com/UKSwB.jpg

    • Patrick Henry

      Intriguing…

  • Cumbria

    I’ve sat back for the past year and watched this site and the traffic here grow and agree this movement is gaining momentum thanks in large part to A Voice For Men and the amazing people here who support it. I love, love, love the look of the updated website and know it will attract even more followers. I wish you continued success and would like to personally thank you, Mr. Elam, for your strong passion, determination and dedication to the MRM. I also thank those that have put in great effort behind the scenes to make this site what it is today. This has been a long time coming and the time has come! I give you my continued support and wish you the very best!

  • AntZ

    OT – I just posted this on Man Boobz, because Futrelle has been upping the dose of anti-male poison in his posts recently. A lot.

    I felt it was time to respond:

    What man-hating sexists like Futrelle refuse to recognize is that the MRM is a movement for EQUALITY. Women consent with their silence to the feminist war on men and boys. Why should men feel responsible for the safety of women? The same women who say nothing when feminists campaign to throw fathers who fall behind on child support into prison (not jail) for many years (not days) on felony (not misdemeanor) charges? The femi-fascists have already succeeded in changing the law in 30 out of 50 states so that falling behind on child support is a felony with years or decades of imprisonment. The NOW is currently campaigning to have Rhode Island become the newest “felony” state, where men are thrown in prison for decades because they lose their jobs and fall behind on child support:

    http://rinow.org/legislative-agenda/2011-legislative-agenda-draft-as-of-21411/

    When you support man-haters like Futrelle, this is the kind of madness you support. Throwing fathers in prison for decades because they lose their jobs. Feminists will never wash the blood off their hands for the violence, rape, torture, and abuse that these fathers will receive in PRISON. Neither will you, if you continue to support man-haters like Futrelle.

    Go to the source. Read the words of the feminist man-haters themselves. Read as they ask for hard prison time for dads who lose their jobs. Read and open your eyes.

    Men’s Rights: Equal treatment under the law and equal protection of government.
    Feminism: Hate

  • AntZ

    OT: My post has the hornet’s nest buzzing. I think some of the man-haters on manboobz are quite annoyed that someone brings facts to their doorstep. They cannot seem to wrap their minds around the fact that “fair” feminists are running a campaign to have fathers thrown in prison for decades when they fall behind on child support due to unemployment.

    • Paul Elam

      Give the bitches hell, with my thanks.

      • Adam

        With all of our thanks too!

  • scatmaster

    I have found AntZ’s gravatar.

    http://i.imgur.com/xyPDs.jpg

  • AntZ

    Got banned after a few exchanges, when I asked the man haters if they would openly say that they believe that fathers sent to prison for child support non payment are not brutally victimized. Ban hammer. Lol.

    • J3DIforce1

      Lol! Of course you were banned. Don’t you know they don’t like being in a position to answer honestly lol. Shame on you AntZ ; )

  • scatmaster

    A gold star for you AntZ.
    I love getting thumbs down and booted from websites.
    I make sure I cache everything as well.

  • AntZ

    Manboobz is actually unusually tolerant, for a feminist site.

    I was booted from “feministe”, and later elected runner-up most hated man of the year with (18.3% of the vote), for this respectful and timid post:

    “British Airways, Qantas, and Air New Zealand all have an explicit policy prohibiting any adult male from sitting next to an unaccompanied child, even when the child’s parents are elsewhere on the aircraft. If no way can be found to re-arrange passengers to accommodate this openly anti-male rule, the man is ejected from the aircraft. This despite the fact that there has never been a case of child abuse on an aircraft. How is this example, one of thousands, not a case of institutional sexism experienced by men? The presumption of male guilt is something that men face every day.”

    That was the day I changed from a blue pill into a “purple pill”, which led to this article in Billings site:

    http://www.pellebilling.com/2010/11/misandry-hits-ny/

    It is embarrassing how timid and respectful I was around women and feminists just 9 months ago. Now I understand that this is a war without quarter, and we are fighting for survival.

    • Paul Elam

      I’d say you are on the fast track, not in the least bit slow. I ate purple pills for many years.

      I recently had it suggested to me that I might consider being a little “nicer,” that the tone of AVfM should ease down a bit, and that suggestion came from a fellow activist that I had, and have, a great deal of respect for. I have changed parts of the message for clarification and for the sake of anonymity, but the gist remains the same.

      I understand why the question was posed, but I do think at times that people don’t fully realize what is happening. Here was my response.

      ——-

      Your questions and concerns are really important to me, and the questions you asked are of general importance, so I have been thinking about it a lot and wanted to give you my thoughts in response as to why I disagree with you so strongly (While I still hold a great deal of respect for you and your hard work).

      It is important, XXX, that someone out here, many people actually, have a voice about these issues that isn’t nice; that is, in fact, quite hostile and calculated to be that way. And it is important for a lot of reasons.

      First, men have a right to be absolutely outraged at what is going on and a legitimate need to express it unambiguously. I don’t use the word “need” lightly. I have never experienced what a lot of men at my site have, being robbed by courts, having children ripped out of their lives, being put in jail on lies, etc.

      Those men have a need for a safe place to vent, and just as importantly to seeing their outrage echoed and broadcast on a level that at least gives them some feeling of empowerment – which provides them a reason to take action on their own. It is essential that they have that, and that is precisely why AVfM has grown so quickly into the most heavily traveled men’s rights website on the internet.

      Well, that and the fact that we don’t just “talk” here.

      I assure you I understand that other organizations could not operate on such raw emotion and hostility. I know it would not be productive.

      But this is the way things have always worked with legitimate social movements. King appealed to peoples decency, X gave them something to fear…a reason to listen to King.

      The sad fact is that there never has been a single fight against bigotry and oppressive governance in history that did not involve angry people heaping their outrage on those responsible. It is part of the mechanics of social change, and won’t be different despite our wishes for “civilized” redress.

      We are not opposing civilized people, after all. We are up against bigots and tyrants and a growing number of their victims come to AVfM as a result.

      I see groups like XXX as the ones doing a very important, critical kind of activism, and I am more than thankful for their efforts. Wouldn’t change a thing.

      But anger, XXX, is the only thing that will get many kinds of viable action at this stage of the game. And it is the driving force behind why we are finally able to draw complacent ideologues into a philosophical battle that must happen.

      It won’t always be pretty, and it is not supposed to be.

      I have to trust that people in the trenches in places where decorum and tact really matter also understand that there are indeed arenas in this battle where those things are unproductive and hindering.

      There is much more to this, but at some point soon I am going to write a lengthy article regarding your questions.

      It is important stuff. But yes, I don’t agree with your current take on this. I think AVfM is doing just what it needs to do and will only need to tailor its message when circumstances justify it.

      So far, circumstances justify a more aggressive and hostile tone.

      • keyster

        “Anger” is a masculine trait that might lead to violence, and it’s scary. That’s why it works. No one else does it anymore.

        If more men knew what was happening to them and what was about to happen to their sons, they’d be plenty angry. I think that’s why they avoid the red pill. We need to help men channel the anger once they start the dosage or they’ll go off the rails.

      • Type 5

        I have to trust that people in the trenches in places where decorum and tact really matter also understand that there are indeed arenas in this battle where those things are unproductive and hindering.

        I’ve concluded that it’s incumbent upon those who are trying to work within the system to publicly disown, differentiate and distance themselves from us extremists in the FTSU crowd and thus benefit from being “the reasonable ones.” One hopes, though, that they do understand how they benefit from our activity and confine themselves to occasional pro-forma denunciations and not waste everyone’s energy trying to quiet us.

        I once had a signature on a men’s forum that read, “Making other MRAs seem reasonable since 2002.”

    • AntZ

      At manboobz, there have been 23 posts since I was banned over three hours ago. All 23 are replying to my original string of messages showing evidence of a feminist hate campaign. Most basically say “Anthony Zarat is a coward, that is why he does not make any more posts”

      I have tried twice to post one line “Anthony Zarat was banned from this site three hours ago, please stop asking him questions.” However, this one line comment has been (twice) removed after “moderation”. I guess it is too strong, offensive, or abusive for them.

      It is very similar to my original argument: family courts first “ban” the father from the family, then “blame” the father for being gone, then “burn” the father with prison or punishment. Congratulations all around, a feminist job well done. This is how they think. Ban the guy, then say that he is not man enough to show up. What a lark.

      • Robert Full Of Rage

        Antz,

        Wait….are you telling us that women responded to your arguments with shaming language? I am not surprised.

        Anyways, it was too bad your infiltration of Manboobz ended up as a kamikaze mission. At least you made the feminists’ rationalization hamsters go insane :)

      • Whitney

        I really had to stop going to the manboobz site. They attack on an ad hominem level and use all the colour codes to belittle and try to win arguments. I was called innumerate, a rape apologist … etc. trying to argue with those air-heads.

        It is best if we take shifts over there because it can be quite soul destroying knowing what we are up against.

        Here’s an example

        Most of the time, when he mediates, it’s pretty simple, a parenting plan is proposed, some niggling about the details; and means for making adjustments as life gets in they way of rigidity.

        But the cases with disputes… usually the dad engaging in Anal Millinery.

  • Zarathos022

    And thanks to everyone on this site for letting me know that I’m not the only one who thinks that the femmies are full of it.

    Thanks again and may this site live on forever.

  • http://thingsarebad.blogspot.com Jeremiah

    w00t w00t

  • http://www.youtube.com/user/meninrevolt meninrevolt

    I just wanted to remark that the AVfM radio show has already been available on iTunes as a podcast (not since the beginning though).

    • Paul Elam

      There was some question as to whether that was the case. It is supposed to be a part of the service from BTR. Do you have a link?

      • http://www.youtube.com/user/meninrevolt meninrevolt

        I hesitated to post a link because I’m not sure if it is related to my account (the id tag at the end) and hence couldn’t be visited on other computers. I hope it works: http://itunes.apple.com/en/podcast/a-voice-for-men-blog-talk/id429669134

        • Paul Elam

          Thanks for posting that. I don’t think it is tied to your account. I got through just fine and was pleased to see that they do have all 18 episodes so far.

          Hopefully before too long we will be able to integrate a link to that into the home page.

  • Demosthenes XXI

    Paul…I love the new look of the site and I love how quickly things seem to be progressing here.

    Just coming here and reading seems to refresh me and give me the energy to keep up my part of the fight.

    Thanks guys!

    • Paul Elam

      Then the site is doing what we wanted it to do. :)

  • MSFM

    Late to comment: the new site looks outstanding.
    Awesome job by all involved.

    I look forward to Tuesday nights as well.

  • Izzey

    Hello all,
    Izzey is in the soup (literally; with flooding and ongoing rain in New York) I have been reading, but not replying. My apologies to all of the fine writers (and commenters) here.

    The site is coming along beautifully. :)

    I have articles written, but not polished.
    There is however, a current event that I would like to throw in here, that has me enraged. I will try to write up my thoughts about it without hissing and spitting on my screen.. later on this evening.

    My seasonal work will be slowing down in the fall, and then you will see my fire and ice all over this place once again.

    Thank you for mentioning me here, Paul.
    I am happy to do my share, along with so many that collectively make AVFM… a voice to be reckoned with.

    There is so much more to be done.
    And I am ‘in for the long haul’.

    See you all soon,
    Izzey

    • AntZ

      Welcome back Izzey. I live in NY also, and I am fixing my roof today (right now waiting for the roof to dry so I can apply roofing cement). The cable guy compromised the integrity of the shingles when he installed a new cable for a kind of TV that I don’t even have, and will never buy.

      Interestingly, I also experienced an event that I want to share on Thursday at the local Taco Bell. A young woman dressed in a micro-skirt and see-through tube top (nothing wrong with either) was offended when a man in a passing pickup truck glared at her and honked. The woman called the police AND THEY CAME. Apparently, “street harassment” is now illegal. Catcalls and even glaring are against the law. What the FUCK is this?!?

      If it is a woman’s body to do with as she pleases (which I support), then it is my fucking mouth and eyes to do with as I please.

      It was suffolk county trooper car #702, and I want to write a complaint to the police. What kind of moron wastes police resources investigating CATCALLS and GLARING?

      A woman wants to show her tits in public? I support that, it is her right. It is also MY right to look, or say, whatever I want about it, as long as I do not threaten her.

  • keyster

    “…was offended when a man in a passing pickup truck glared at her and honked.”

    That’s her real complaint. Had it been a handsome guy in a convertible Porche, Ferrari or Lamborgini she would have smiled and waived. A man in a pick-up truck will probably be a lowly blue collar worker, on his sway home from a job, dirty clothes, wreaking of sweat and/or chemicals….as very low status male. How dare he think of her in a sexual manner without her consent! It’s like she was raped!

    She didn’t dress like that; for a man of such low status to receive visual pleasure from. To her, he’s disgusting and needs to be controlled by the authorities. SHE will decide who is worthy or complimenting her or being arrested as she sees fit. And don’t EVER question her style or tastes.

  • DarkByke

    I am using Gravatar now. I have a voice, I have a face, I am here. :)

  • yurlungur

    Nice looking site.

    Maybe I just have a poor monitor, but some of the lines lack definition maybe they could be made a little thicker, the lines tend to bleed into the background which makes seeing things like the comment box harder to make out.
    This isn’t too big of a problem for me as I am reasonably tech savvy and can just create my own CSS, but it might be a problem to those that have poor eyesight.

    Also Will the article to PDF feature ever come back?