A Letter to Men PDF Print E-mail
Written by Paul Elam   
Friday, 26 June 2009 15:56

(Warning: This is a rant and dirty words are in use)

I’ve been an MRA (Men’s Rights Activist) promoting gender equalitarianism for nearly twenty years.  Recently I have been downright giddy over the emerging voices of men and women who have had enough of feminists, and are throwing the lies promulgated by them right back in their faces.

This is especially true on the internet, and in particular places like Youtube. These days, if it gets loud enough on the internet, even the morons in the mainstream media start paying attention.

But I have to say it is time to stop, at least for a moment.

The real problem we have now isn’t feminists, it’s men.  I am not talking about MRA’s, at least not most of them, but about Joe Average next door.

I am quite likely talking about you.

And so I am here to do some male bashing of my own.  And men now have that coming to them far more than feminists.

I am not here to reinforce the stupid ideas about men that feminists have spread for so long, but to point out the stupid actions of men that have enabled feminists to keep grabbing more power without much of a challenge.

We have had a gender war, guys.  The problem is that you didn‘t show up.

While men, and by that I mean you, your brothers, fathers, sons and friends get bent over and raped in openly rigged family courts, you look the other way.

While your sons get marginalized and fall behind in ever more female centered schools systems (they now only represent 42% of college students), you have pretty much reacted by making sure the TIVO is set to get the next ball game.

While the media has portrayed you as one dimensional idiots, and sitcoms show you as bumbling fools who couldn’t tie your own shoes without your wife’s supervision, you have validated that idiotic treatment by tolerating it, and have indeed begun to emulate it.

While your sons are used as cannon fodder in illicit wars and are simultaneously excoriated by society for having too much power, your response has largely been:

“Man, look at the hooters on her!”

You have taken to reading shit magazines like Men’s Health, so you can learn to have six pack abs and attract a shallow, morally vacant princess that will revel in your obsequious, servile manner, just so you can get laid.

And five years from now, when that loser you married robs you of your children, your income, your property and your dignity, your best friend will console you with something as profound as “Dude, that really sucks.  Want a beer?”

It will happen to more than half of you that get married, but you are too stupidly absorbed in your own meaningless bullshit to figure it out.  And you will raise your sons to be set up for the same crap.

It is enough to make someone say, “WAKE THE FUCK UP!!”

You know, that may be the wrong thing to say.  Most of you aren’t asleep, you’re in a god damn coma.  Anesthetized by a thoughtless existence, you’re crippled by one of the few things feminists have said about you that happens to be true.

You think with your dick.

And you know, though you likely won’t admit it,  when you think with your dick, the first thing it does is take your balls and your spine out of the picture.  With them go your morals and credibility.

And that is how most of you live, in a penis dictated servitude; as trained seals fearful of saying or doing anything that might cause princess to get upset with you or that, God forbid, might keep you from getting laid.

Personally, I have seen enough of this crap from men to last me a lifetime.  There are men out here right now, fighting an uphill battle you can’t imagine just to give you a fair shot at justice when the wife calls in the lawyers and the state to dissolve your marriage and your assets; to dissolve your life.

You don’t owe them or me anything, but you might, if you can pull your head out of your ass for five minutes, think about what you owe your sons.

Many of you who have already been destroyed by family courts are still raising your daughters to be overly entitled little princesses, and your sons to be the mules that will carry the weight for them through life, only to be discarded when they are used up.

And you are still more interested in big screens than the big picture.  It’s fucking pathetic.

This chosen ignorance is fatal.  Men die more frequently of all the top killer diseases than women, though women get the lions share of gender specific medical research money.  Women outlive men by seven years, and though they have had a national office for women’s health for decades, we are just now hearing the first inklings that we might have one for men.  It hasn’t happened yet.

Maybe you don’t give a shit if you die of heart disease or prostate cancer before you are sixty.  But if you have a son, at least give him the honesty to turn to him and tell him you don’t give a shit if he does either.

I imagine that more than a few of you won’t much like what I have to say.  You’ll have to just imagine my concern about that.  But if it upsets you, it won’t last.  All you need is fifteen minutes of acting like a chump for the nearest feminist, or the nearest woman, who will gladly pat you on the head and tell you that you are a good boy, and you will feel right as rain.

But if you are so upset that you want to do something about it, then I have a suggestion.  Instead of buying those tickets to the ball game, or that next 12 pack, send the money to a fathers rights organization that is doing work for which you do not have the sense or the nerve.

Or how about this?  The next time you hear a woman take a stupid, bigoted stab at men, say something about it.

And this time, don’t say something agreeable so you can score points.  And don’t lie, you know you have done it.  After all, what is self respect compared to some tail?  Your sons can live on their knees, too, though it is an ironic life for a species distinguished by it’s ability to stand upright.

But if you can’t manage a single moment of real backbone, please just keep your mouth shut.  There are men our here trying to do for you and your sons what you wont.  There are already enough obstacles in the way.  The last thing we need is the ignorant fuck-knuckles who are being helped to shoot us down.

Like I said, feminists are not the real problem any more.  They launched a gender war and men, rather than fight back, just blindly followed, out of fear, and out of biological programming.  And what else can we call it but blindness when men and their sons get flogged with rampant injustice  and they react, in a thunderous collective voice, saying:

“How ‘bout them cowboys?”

I know, this is a rant, and after I have unleashed all my hostilities I am supposed heave a sigh of relief and say something conciliatory, like “Sorry if I offended.”  But the truth is that if this stuff applies to you, then you need to be offended.  

You need, I dare say, whatever it takes to get you to spine up, find your balls, and learn to think past the next ball game and piece of ass.

If that is as far as you can reach, then there is not much reason for you to be here.



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Comments (2)
2 Thursday, 24 September 2009 15:27
Yes, this is sound advice. Now is the time I hope men wake up and smell the foul-smelling feminist onslaught and how men didn't show up to the gender war. We can't lose by default, let's fight the matriarchy with all we got.
1 Friday, 18 September 2009 06:17
Its about time someone said this, too many manginas are the reason things will never change, they also need to held accountable for the tradigy that is feminism