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Dr. Paul on ‘men can stop rape’

Publishers note: Dr. Paul has been in a state of semi-retirement. Recent events, he tells me, have compelled him to put down the piña colada, move his fat ass from the beach lounger and into his ragamuffin cabaña, and fire up the laptop. That makes me nervous, being that I am all about not offending anyone. But what can I say? He’s Dr. Paul, and he won’t be denied his say. Buckle up, folks, and remember, it’s not my fault. PE

Ladies, it is time you and I had a nice little sit down talk. Well, to be more honest, it really is time that you shut up and listen while I try to drill some sense in your head.

Before I start I want to give you my standard disclaimer. If what I am about to say does not apply to you, then there is no reason to be offended. And if you want to be offended on behalf of women everywhere, then stick around. That grandiosity needs to be addressed…with a little boot therapy.

That being said, we need to talk about rape. Or, rather, the prevention of it, if there is such a thing.

There have been a lot of feminists out there for the last several months putting forward their plan to end rape, and it is a hum dinger. It is a genius plan. Well, it’s genius for you if your IQ doesn’t exceed your shoe size.

It’s the new “Tell men not to rape anyone” plan to prevent sexual assaults against women. And I bet you were wondering why no one ever thought of it sooner.

In case you had not heard, here is an example of the advocacy for it in action:

Now see there? See how easy it is to stop rape? All you have to do is target the entire population of men and tell them not to rape. I’m telling you, they ought to give Zerlina a Nobel or something with her Xanax next time she is at the clinic.

Just think of it, women the world over will no longer have to care where they are or what they are doing or who they are with because there will be no one who will rape them, provided we have made sure that every man on the planet has been told rape is bad and not to do it.

And I don’t want to suggest that women are in any way responsible for making decisions that may reduce their chances of being attacked, but I’d also like to suggest a backup plan as a failsafe in case there is some men out there who the feminist establishment has not reached because of patriarchy.

Ladies, repeat after me.

Don’t rape me.

See there, using feminist logic, all you have to do to fend off a rape (not that I am in any way saying you should ever have to fend off a rape) is that you can offer said corrective instruction directly to your rapist! All you have to do is be prepared to tell any man who has not already heard (which must be the case if he is sexually assaulting you) that he is not supposed to rape.

That’ll put the brakes on ‘em for sure.

Seriously ladies, are you really this stupid? Or this inept and helpless?

Let’s see if we can drive the point in another way.

Can we stop locking our homes and cars, and indeed become outraged and offended by anyone suggesting we take responsibility for securing our property, by simply telling people not to be thieves? Does that sound like a fucking plan to you? If it does, you may just be stupid enough to unnecessarily put yourself in the path of a rapist. And GET THIS, he is not going to stop because you tell him to. I am pretty sure that is why they call it rape. He is also not going to hesitate from raping anyone else because someone told him it was wrong and that he should not do it. If you have any sense at all you will get that crap out of your head once and for all.

Here is the problem, ladies. Just like every other bill of goods you have ever been sold by feminists (who seriously don’t give a shit whether you get raped or not and may in fact count on some funding if you do), the idea that we can prevent rape by “teaching men not to rape,” is a pile of bullshit so high that it would have scared Evel Knievel in his heyday to even think about trying to jump over it.

And that is not even the hard part, ladies. The hard part is a cold, honest look at why you are being sold this shit. And it is hard because the problem is you.

RapeYes, you.  This stupid and patently dangerous rape reduction plan is in high gear because you demand answers that don’t make you accountable for taking care of yourself or for making sound decisions. It is the part of you, these days near all of you, that sees life through the eyes of a perpetual little girl who thinks Daddy, or some other service provider, is supposed to be everywhere at all times with all the answers, preventing anything bad from happening, so that you get to stay in your little cocoon and never even have to think scary thoughts.

They are selling this snake oil to a lot of you because that is the only thing you are willing to listen to; because being responsible for taking care of yourself in frightening situations is beyond the scope of your emotional maturity.

And you are sucking it up at your own peril.

Go back and watch that video again, and figure out how to tell yourself that you don’t see it. Tell yourself you don’t see Hannity, buffoon that he is, walking on eggshells as though he is talking to an emotionally fragile little girl. Tell yourself that Zerlina isn’t just having a control fit, demanding that someone make the world a place where she does not have to take any responsibility for defending herself.

Look ladies, the world, despite the fact that it is a safer place for you than it ever has been in history, can still get rough. Shit happens. And shit happens that you cannot solve with feminist sound bites, as though feminist sound bites ever solved anything. But if you are really concerned for your physical safety, then grow the fuck up and learn how to take care of yourself. Technology has provided you ample ways to do it.

The day may come for any of us when we have to face a physically superior attacker. If that time comes for you, pick your weapon of choice now; something substantive, or a feminist slogan designed to feel warm and fuzzy, raise money and leave you completely vulnerable when it counts the most.

Oh yeah, if someone tells you not to get in a car with a stranger, take the fucking chip off your shoulder and listen to them. It is good advice. Just like you were told when you were a kid. And since you are likely still a kid, it should make some sense to you. Sure, the stranger in the car is supposed to be a nice person that would not harm anyone, just because someone told them that was the kind of person to be.

But that is a fairytale. Please check your date of birth on your driver license before accepting that kind of standard. You may be a little old for it.

There is a lot of other advice that might keep your gullible ass out of a sling, too, but I won’t go into all that now because until you start to comprehend the reality that you need to be responsible for taking care of yourself, none of it will sink in anyway.  You will just keep insisting, childishly, foolishly, that somebody, somewhere, should tell all the bad, bad men not to be that way so that you can keep living in a fucking dream.

You might do well to remember that in any given person’s life, a certain amount of dreams turn out to be nightmares.

Maybe, just maybe, you should wake up.

About Dr. Paul

Dr. Paul is just like Dr. Phil, except that he is not a big fat lying windbag that will say and do anything to cater to a deluded female audience. Oh yes, he is not a real doctor, but he plays one on the internet.

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  • eckon

    I am not a real member of this site, I just saw this article while cruising and was so appalled I had to make an account so that I could comment. The fact that people like you exist terrifies me.

    • Robert Crayle

      I am not a real(ly bright) person who just saw this comment while cruising and was so unsurprised I had to make a comment. The fact that people like you exist amuses me.

    • http://shiningpearlsofsomething.blogspot.com Suzanne McCarley

      The fact that people like you make the rules, terrifies me:

      http://www.avoiceformen.com/women/an-anonymous-letter/

    • Near Earth Object

      Now that you have shared your feelings, can we move along to your thoughts?

      What does this article–in it’s entirety–mean for you?

    • napocapo69

      Yeah, we know the problem is that people like us exist, we already heard such concepts.
      Any solution to this problem? Any “Final Soution” to this problem, dear gentle little girl?

    • OneHundredPercentCotton

      Aren’t you so fortunate – and privileged – to live in a world where something like this “terrifies” you?

      Pat yourself on the back and be proud to live in a place and time this is what your knowledge of what “terror” constitutes.

      They sell adult pacifiers and adult diapers, not to mention water proof Big Girl Panties, but unless you have someone else to do it for you, you’ll have to go out into this big terrifying world to buy them yourself!!!!!!

  • Near Earth Object

    I know, I know, I know…it’s just a coincidence, but…
    Exit one Eoghan and enter one Eckon.

    So, when does installment number two from Dr. Paul hit the presses?

  • MGTOW-man

    Don’t we all know that feminists don’t want for themselves or women to be responsible for themselves. They are all victims of the evil, purposefully undermining, preplanned construction and implementation of the patriarchal oppression of women.

    So, they are helpless—while also claiming to be equal. So which is it —helpless or equal?

    News flash: You can’t get help and still call yourselves equal. Well, you shouldn’t be able.

    On that note, is there anything, any thing at all, that feminists and women in general have accomplished on their own?

    Out of their list of changes made via their fight for “equality”, what have they done without the help of (duped) men?

    Me, when I try to see them as equal, (which they ARE naturally and opposite, but not as identically), I keep seeing this void. I notice that I am supposed to call them my equals but without the substance to back it up. I see that with every thing they say that they are equal, it is actually that they are getting help from men, from society, from each other, and who knows where else. I am expected to lie for them, pretend I do not see the equality-preventing help they routinely get from every angle.

    Is there anything they are truly equal with men when trying to be identical to us?

    Special preferential treatment for women only coddles them. It makes them dependent on HELP.

    One would have to be an idiot to say creatures who need so much help being equal are equal anyway—just because they want to be.

    Where is the proof?

  • Eoghan

    Ok, for you idiots that don’t believe that if you know what feminists claims about rape culture are in the first place, you can more effectively debunk them than by pretending that you know what they are and attacking strawman. Read the good boy projects latest rape culture article, and read Danny, Archy and Tamen easily and legitimately exposing its flaws in the comments section.

    Hopefully you won’t interpret legitimately debunking them as opposed to straw manning, as feminism.

    • Denis

      Sorry, but no. Claiming that men are also victims of rape *does not* debunk rape culture, it debunks feminism. You had your chance to show some intelligence, but you failed and came back to insult those that disagree with you.

    • OneHundredPercentCotton

      If there was any legitimacy to the concept, perhaps it would be worthwhile to “study” the endlessly convoluted, intricately woven, never endingly self-centered thought processes you are offering to enlighten us with.

      However, like the proclaimed “War On Women”, as far as I’m concerned, it’s an idiotic rabbit hole I have absolutely no interest in following you into.

      Women have been clanging the hysteric alarm bells so much, for so long, I am utterly deafened to anymore clanging.

      Sorry. You’re going to have to enjoy masturbating your rape culture “theory” all by yourself.

      I…don’t…give..a…shit.

  • Robert Sides

    We should fund a monument:

    “Here lie millions of wimmin who believed feminist lies.”

    Or we could start a new, feminist-approved public-service program to end laziness. The only folks shown on posters would be blacks.

    Or better yet, we could create a flyer: “Womyn alone hold the strings to saving the planet from global waste!”

    Then show a photo of a tampon.

    Feminism reinforces the idea that women can’t be scientists because they constantly over-simplify, get things bass-ackwards, scapegoat, mistake coincidence with causation, ignore new or conflicting evidence, use emotion instead of reason, and so on.

    Finally, fembot research eschews footnotes, preferring to use “feelingnotes.” For example:

    “F1. I feel like I’m a hottie, so men are pigs who rut after me. Or when they ignore me…which happens too much.”

    • MGTOW-man

      Yep!

  • http://thegenderequalist.blogspot.com Izza

    No no no, you can’t tell women to say “Don’t rape me” when somebody’s about to rape them; she might forget and then it would be victim blaming. All men must be reminded multiple times a day not to rape. It’s the only way.

    I wouldn’t bother clarifying that that was sarcasm, but it’s probably believable enough to be mistaken…