Feminists tend to behave as if feminism were central to the gay rights struggle historically and that gay people owe feminists something. Both assertions are lies. Gay men owe you nothing, feminists. Nothing.
Feminism rejects equality of opportunity, or as we say in Australia, “a fair go” which is liberalism. Rather it promotes equality of outcome which is Maoism. If the Australian Army was, like many European Armies, only ever involved in Peacekeeping Operations then it could get away with this. They can’t.